Have two gals and i ve to choose one to mary?

Question

Pl help me one to choose -:One gal is poor ,average looks,nature is good and adjustable has some health problems like Duodenal ulcersOther gal is rich,average looks,nature is dominating ,does not listen to me and says she will listen after marriage,as i dont have any rights now,health problems like insomnia.Pl help me with ur suggestions?

Answer 1

If you don't love either of them, and have made no commitments to them, then sit back and think carefully and deeply-are you really going to be comfortable with either of them? Or would you rather wait and see if you can find somebody better? Maybe you also need time to decide?
You'll have your answer, I am sure.
All the best!
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Answer 2

Wow you're in a awkward position right now. i think you have already answered that question for yourself. A person should not be chosen by their income whether they're rich or poor, nor their looks because always remember looks are deceiving. Although gal number 1 has a few health problems those things can be fixed with medicine, I too have ulcers. She is also willing to adjust to things which is a great thing, it means that you two can go to exciting places together and she's not going to worry about her nails breaking or getting dirty and not having a good time like gal number 2 sounds like. Gal number 2 may be rich and also have average looks but looks don't make a person, it's whats on the inside that counts the most remember that. Also, whether she is married to you or not she doesn't have to listen to her may be she thinks that's controling which isnt healthy, but if she doesn't communicate as well as Gal number 1 then i say ditch number 2 and stay with number 1. To make a marriage healthy you need communication, honesty, trust, as well as other things that I am sure that I left out but those 3 are very important. I just don't think that Gal number 2 would be a good choice. Keep in mind that you can't start on top and work your way to the bottom as you would be with Gal number 2. Gal number 1 gives you the opportunity to start fresh and work your way to the top together enjoying life together. Hope this helps you out with your decision.

Answer 3

What's the rush into the marrying thing? I think you need to date 'em longer and sooner or later one of 'em'll 'drop out' somewhere's (and that'll answer your question!) The one that really 'loves ya' will still be around, bub. I think both of them sound like they'd be o.k. (You sound o.k. w/em both.) I know.. somebody'll write the first one's the one for you (since the second one won't listen.) Personally I like being married to an 'intelligent' person. (I'm assuming you are smart.. hang around w/someone smart.. trust me, I know! I went to college and married somebody w/like an 8th grade education who says "we was" and **** like that.. bugs the hell outta me now.) How's the second girl SPEND her money? That's a tip off too. I always say 'so what' if you're rich.. How you spend what you have's more important. (hell, we all think we don't have enough money oncein a while..) Who's got insomnia? (lost me on that one.) I think duodenal ulcers aren't the end of the world.. they're no biggie/R treatable. When I hear ulcer tho I think she sounds 'stressed out' /what's up w/that? That might be a clue to help you decide. (Anyone got any 'kids?' watch out there.. They're rough to raise.) If the rich one is domineering is there a reason? Maybe she got all that money by some good business smarts (and hell, why not let her help you w/a little of that, eh?) There's a lot more info. floating around here than one would see at first glance.. g'luck (later.. melancholia)

Answer 4

My God! You sound like me before my second marriage. I had been sleeping with one woman for two years, trying to get her to marry me, but she kept refusing. She was wealthy, would inherit millions, and was about the sexiest thing I'd ever known, and attractive to boot. When she forced me away from her and started seeing other men, I began a relationship with a very sweet, loving, and pretty nurse who had some problems but we enjoyed a quiet kind of lovemaking which I found soothing, but fun, after the tempestuous, extremely physical relationship with the first woman. Before long the first one wanted me back; obviously the fact that I had someone else piqued her interest again. So I was sleeping with both, even leaving one to go to the other in one night. It got pretty confusing for me. The well-to-do woman was quite dominating; although I was strong-willed, too; so we clashed a good bit. The gentle nurse had a more malleable personality, very pleasing, but not the slightest temper like the first.

Finally my sweet, pretty nurse asked me to make a committment to her. I couldn't answer her. Instead I rushed to my rich, bold lover and asked her again to marry me. This time, she said yes. I guess now I should rue the day I didn't commit to my poor, pleasant nurse. My second marriage then was constant pitting of our opposing personalities against the other for the seven years it lasted.

Does that give you any idea what to do about your predicament? I hope so. I'm not going to tell you what to do, otherwise.

Answer 5

there is nothing wrong with being a realist but it seems to me that your missing the point. What is it that you love about each of them? write it down side by side and see which one makes you smile more when you read those things... You could even set up a date with all the things you love to do the most and have each of them go out with you and see who you have the most fun with!Good luck buddy I hope you don't get screwed out of life like I did

Answer 6

Two guys want to marry me and one is 53 and the other is 29 and im 20. But the 53 is married and wants to get a divorced and marry me... what should i do?

Answer 7

Flip a coin.
Heads one...Tails the other.
Either way you will be married and having fun for the first 6 months. Then you will wish you married the other.

Answer 8

If you're seeing 2 girls U R NOT ready 2 marry.

Answer 9

If you have two active relationships going, you aren't ready for marriage. The answer is marry neither.

Answer 10

do you love either one of them?? that should be your first question you ask yourself. know that marriage is supposed to be a lifelong commitment,for better or worse. something to be taken seriously, it sounds like you are trying to choose a date not a wife