She asked me if I'd prefer the easy way, I said, "no."
"Well, okay then, don't cry."
2006-06-17 14:11:56
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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A mixture of both, like in every walk of life, there are good times and hard times.
I think it's hard for me to a certain extent at the moment because I can't secure permanent full time work in the field I'm interested in. The role I'm trying to secure is pretty hard obtain so I have been working in the same field on a freelance basis since 2003 so that I have relevant and extensive experience on my CV but I know some people who finished their studies and literally rolled out of their bed and into a job!
And those people are the first to moan about the job (failing to realise they should be grateful to have the job in the first place) and are also quick to tell me to quit moaning about not having a job in this role.
So what I am trying to say in a long-winded way is that because I have had to stay at the bottom of the ladder for a long time and having dealt with the knock-backs along the way; when the opportunity finally arises, I will be grateful for where I am because I can look back at the rocky road in getting to that place whereas if it were handed to me on a plate, would I be so grateful?
Having said that, people could quite rightly look at at me and say that I don't have debts to deal with because my folks funded my eductaion (though a debt to the folks is for life, I'm constantly being reminded about my duty to them when they get old).
Sorry this answer was so long but it is something I feel strongly about.
2006-06-17 20:51:10
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answered by LONDONER © 6
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I had a good life, being brought up with all the best opportunities, then I had a bad life when my parents died within two years of each other. Now I have a good life because I've found inner peace, learnt SO much about life from my experiences (and am thankful I am two halves of them which makes sense of it all), and was left enough to buy a house and make my own roots.
I'm getting married in less than three weeks and I'm going to have a good life:
Because I've earnt it.
Because my husband-to-be gives it.
Because I've had important things stolen from me but that's okay.
Because I'll always need something!
2006-06-17 16:24:58
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answered by peanut1973 3
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what you're able to desire to do, is a few events that have easily no longer something to do at the same time with your analyze for about an hour an afternoon. some thing you have fun with doing. interpreting, a cup of espresso, staring at television, despite provokes your activity. it particularly is such as you're in a hollow suitable now because of the fact all you're doing is feeling under pressure. Do some thing to take the rigidity away. set up a time table. think of roughly how long it will take you to earnings, and time table a time to try this. it is YOUR existence. you are able to administration it. no longer something is out of your administration. it is not all approximately your occupation. it particularly is approximately YOU. Be you. Do the failings that make you satisfied and you will replace into much greater centred.
2016-12-08 22:09:20
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answered by rocca 4
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not sure what your asking lol.
its not been too hard in the sense people have had worse. ive had a gun stuck in my face but im still here. i got to go college now that ive passed i struggle to find work because of where i live..seeing people who dropped out in school getting a job when you passed college is tough... lol. i love where i live so much i want to move over 1000miles away. my family is great and i feel loved so id say i was lucky. ive earned everything i have but if i lost it id be back at the beginning so maybe i dont need it that much
2006-06-17 14:17:24
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answer #5
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answered by frostyg02uk 5
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From my perspective which includes past life existances, I believe that our divine selves contract the journey and life experiences that we will take in this physicality, for the purpose of growing spiritually.
All challenges we face in this lifetime can also be effected by ancestral (blood line), cultural (country of birth and early life) and karmic (wrong doings to others) connections.
2006-06-17 15:43:04
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answered by lit_spirit 3
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Mine has been both. My family was a mess, I worked my way through college and grad. school. Now I have a pretty good life, but there is always hard stuff in life.
2006-06-17 14:24:22
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answered by keri gee 6
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Earn it! but there are times when you have to beg, borrow, cheat, steal and lie.
2006-06-17 14:16:13
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answered by Anonymous
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Life is hard; but so short!
2006-06-17 15:17:24
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answered by Anonymous
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my life so far has been good, but I make it hard for myself
2006-06-18 01:34:35
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answered by Anonymous
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hard life baby!!! and love it. my track i am travelling on is slowly getting better.
2006-06-17 14:52:45
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answered by ? 7
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