he completly ruined my 13th birthday party. He:
Was really hyper.
Acted like a monkey
hoged the games
broke our sewing machine
trashed my room
ate the snacks when we told him not to
And worst of all he FlAsHeD everyone!!!
2006-06-17 13:48:51 · 11 answers · asked by Pliio8 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, that was really nice of you to invite him and give him a chance. He blew it. Don't invite him back. Stay clear of him, but if you run into him, avoid trouble and just be polite, but don't engage him in conversation.
2006-06-17 13:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry I don't know what FIAsHeD means...which makes me feel old.
But my advice is definetly tell your parents if they don't already know.
Then, try to find out if there is a mediation organization in your area. Mediation can be found for free in many communities especially for young people like yourselves, your school may even have a program (but since it is summer check the yellow pages).
A mediator (who is neutral) will sit down with you and the kid that was bugging you and talk about what happened. S/he will help you guys talk about what happened that day and what you want to see happen in the future. You will get to hear his side right from his mouth so you don't have to guess at why he did what he did. Then you get to tell him how and why you were mad. Then hopefully you will have a better understanding of what happened and the two of you can talk about how you want to deal with each other in the future.
Good luck!
2006-06-17 14:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 22:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by rocca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kid is probably of of two things- they have adhd in which case feed him a but load of fruit for the natural sugar and than it may have the reverse effects on him so they'll calm down or they may be gay and in the closet or have some sort of problem with shyness and has now reverted to doing everything they can not to think about their insecurity- so talk to the kid about his life and find their secret and help them deal with it or you'll keep getting the monkey
2006-06-17 14:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's looking for attention. He probably has a crush on someone who was there and didn't know how to act. A way to deal with him is to be nice but not TOO nice otherwise he may get the wrong idea. Deal with him calmly or he might get angry.
2006-06-17 13:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puberty ROCKS!! I remember that. I was terrible. I was mean to all the girls that I liked. I had lots of energy. He needs to go to a YMCA or boys club and get into sports or something; and stay away from people!!!
2006-06-17 13:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents tonight! The kid needs some help.
2006-06-17 13:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep down you really like him and maybe it's yours friends that are brainwashing you to think he's crazy. If he's done all those things to you, why involve your friends? and secondly, if your only 13, why is a boy in your room?
2006-06-17 14:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by amissirrahc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't invite him to your party. Just ignore him, he's just trying to get a response out of you. If that doesn't work, there are always restraining orders. : P
2006-06-17 13:56:59 · answer #9 · answered by Ravi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the cold shoulder. if it doesnt work, talk to your parents
2006-06-17 13:53:15 · answer #10 · answered by ¯\(°_o)/¯ IDK LOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋