A woman betrayed by a man will not trust that man. A man betrayed by a woman will not trust women. Why?

Answer 1

So you are saying the one woman betrayed by one man loses trust in that man. But a man betrayed by a woman will now distrust all women?
Hmm...I don't know if that is a universal truth, but I think most people have difficulty forgiving a betrayal. Things certainly do change if such a relationship is to continue.

Answer 2

That's so not true. I wouldn't trust ANY man after I'd been betrayed. Whether someone trusts or does not trust an individual or a GROUP (which is what I think you were getting at) depends more on the person doing the trusting, you follow?NOT whether they are male or female.
If you had capitalized the words THAT before the phrase"that man" this question would have been clearer to others.

Answer 3

Your statement is not quite precise.

Men and women, alike, will act in in strict accordance to our experiences.

In the learning process, men and women will get tho know the world through a trial and error experience. Once determined experiences prove to be hurtful, any person will seek to avoid them.

Therefore, a man betrayed by a woman (once) will give himself another opportunity to trust other women, while a woman betrayed by more than one man will stop trusting men.

And the contrary applies the same way.

It's therefore not a matter of sexes, but the result of personal, individual, experiences.

Answer 4

A man, although hiding behind his stronger physique, does not work well with his emotions. A man simply wears his ego on this shoulders. And when he comes across a woman that hooked him by his nose, than he can't finish playing his game with women. He has either met his match or he was outmatched. His emotions start to come uncovered and she continues to control the game. His emotions no longer can be mast by his ego and his emotions are strucked with pain. He is now more vulnerable and shamed because he was not in control of himself. And he does not like that feeling. So to get back out there interacting with people, he remembers the pain and does not extend himself or commit himself too far. The scar of the woman that bruised him is like the everlasting flame - it takes a long time to heal.

Now, when a man wounds a woman's emotions, she can bounce back more quickly than he can because he was not taught how to deal with his emotion growing up in life. He can't cry when something hurts him or he's labeled.

Answer 5

The man may have already been hurt by another woman and has now decided all women are the same so he won't trust any. Yet this may be the woman's first betrayal of a man so she knows the world still has trustworthy men.

Answer 6

I think that your statement is only accurate some of the time.There are individuals of both sexes that simply"give up" after being betrayed once,but on the whole, I think to lose faith in the opposite sex takes a series of betrayals and hurts.Maybe,now this is just a wild guess,it has to do with most women needing men more than most men need women.Men ,I think are able to put up walls and live without love(rather sad),whereas women need to feel needed.Also it's possible that women can forgive and forget better than men can.

Answer 7

The hurt is too severe. It is easier and more comfortable to trust someone of your own sex. It takes a long time to get over being betrayed by the opposite sex.

Answer 8

Dive into that one.

If a woman has been hurt by that one man and hates him but loves another, means she can trust again and again because it is our nature to love and trust and be faithful to one who shows the same. Treat those the way you would want to be treated.

For a man to hate all women for what one has done means that man has to much testosterone. He has no compassion in his heart. No soul to share. Men arent made to nuture. Men are made with muscle and sweat. Men are to protect a woman. Strong arms are to hold. Worked hands are to help. Strained eyes are to watch over. But the saying goes for hardhearted men to.........Treat those the way you would want to be treated. A man can love as much as a women can. Men need as much as a woman. Respect and understanding.

Make that man see only one woman and the hate will disapate. His heart will melt into her arms so she can love him.

Answer 9

I see the difference in how you used singular and plural; and that is very instructive to me.

You know that all humans have memory(ies). But how do we see them?

A woman, being right-brain-hemisphered, only sees the particular man who faulted on her. She does not generalize that impression to "all men" {Thank GAWDESS for that!]
The glory of that is , that noless she decides to forgive that particular man, she at least is free to move on to other men, with an open mind and heart.

Blessed Be the Female Heart.

But, I think there is wisdom in your observation about men.
In my own life, I have tended to think that all women are "cut of the same cloth", and that if one of them hurt me, they all will hurt me.
How can I generalize from just one example, to "all women".Yet--if I have done so, maybe many more men have also done so?!
[generalizing again--:-)

My life has been the poorer for this limited and ignorant way of thinking..

Thank YOU. Your question answered several of mine!
I owe you.

Answer 10

You got that wrong. I was betrayed by a man and did not trust men for decades afterwards.