2006-06-17 13:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by Pilsner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You could always play the same game and encourage him to find himself, acting as if this was perfectly fine, and act as if your not at all concerned, as you have your own life, act as if it's no skin off your nose, that will drive him nuts and he will be running back, or act all worried (that's what he wants) and he will be packing his bags
2006-06-17 13:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by supervfive 4 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should go out and meet other people and have a good time. Its no fun to wait by his side It could take days or even months for a guy to know what he wants or looking for in a woman. Don't get to sick over it. Go out and have fun!
2006-06-17 20:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Makemeahappygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have found himself before finding you. He's not ready for a relationship. But if you really love him, love endures all, even waiting for him.
2006-06-17 20:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by The lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing he wants to find is a new girl. Keep your dignity. Leave the fool.
2006-06-17 20:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by jenn_x_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you are young then I would say to let him go. If he comes back then you are ment to be with each other. If you are older then I would say that he is allready seeing or talking with someone. ( B/F did that to me). So you have to really look to what you are willing to give up of your self. Never give more then you can afford to lose.
2006-06-17 20:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him find himself and make sure somebody finds you and move on
2006-06-17 20:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by tsukat03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he means by that is he wants to go sleep around and see what else is out there, take my word for it I had it happen to me. He's too much of a coward to tell the truth.
2006-06-17 20:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by miranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, while he is 'finding himself' you probably better go 'find yourself' and move on...not trying to be mean, just keeping it real. Good luck.
2006-06-18 00:40:28 · answer #8 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST I THINK U SHOULD ASK WHAT DOES HE MEAN BY FINDING HIMSELF. DOES HE MEAN SEXUALLY, MENTALLY. I MEAN IF HE THINKIN SEXUALLY THEN I SUPPOSE U WOULDNT WANT TO STAY WITH HIM KNOWING HE HAS WENT ON A DATE WITH A GUY..MAYBE U SHOULD LET HIM EXPLAIN IT TO U MORE WHEN U ASK AND COME BACK.
2006-06-17 20:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the age old cowards way of saying that he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Sorry
2006-06-17 20:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋