help please?

Question

am 15 and am a virgin, i dont want to loose it till am a bit over 18 or so, how do i fight the urges?

make that 18 till when i get married... i prefer that

am nut gettin msrried at 18, i just changed my mind that am not loosin it till am married

Answer 1

I hate to say this to a 15 year old..but there are other ways to satisfy yourself. My virginity was stolen from me by my first boyfriend who raped me in my sleep. It is a precious thing, if it means that much to you , fight for it.

Answer 2

I think it is great that you have decided to wait until you get married before losing your virginity.
However, I am a bit concerned that you have said you will be getting married at 18.
Have you no ambition to get into further education or go to college to train for a career?
You are 15 & have you whole life ahead of you. Do not make the mistake of putting off an education or career until later. Later never comes.

Answer 3

when the temptation comes up think fo friends people you may or may not know whether thru school or church that have already may the opposite decision and have kids the strufggles they now face waking up at odd hours school + work supporting them 1 of the toughest choices as your at the age of peer pressure but easy enough to conquer just keep busy if they are truly in love or a friend they will wait now as for 18 a start but if planning to attend college well college and kids = tough if unmarried and when married 2 college careers scheduling classes around kids babysitting funds + mostly off campus housing lots to think of and even others may argue sex doesnt = kids nothing is 100% except what you are currently doing not having it think hard and rember 1 time could = a life time of regret

Answer 4

First of all, congratulations on making such a great choice. The best way to stop the urge is to avoid temptation. For exampele, don't go past kissing with your boyfriend or it will be harder to control yourself. Also, don't date guys unless they have the same standards as you. It wil be harder to fight the tempation if he wants to do it, while if he feels the same way you do, you can help each other fight the urge.

Answer 5

you dont know what you want do you .
wait to see if you feel the same when your older .
at 15 you will change your mind why marry just to have sex and at 18!! your to young to be tied down your living in the 50s ..

Answer 6

You know what? I'm a virgin and I'm 15. I don't think you should have sex UNTIL you are MARRIED! It's just not right. I don't know what happened to our society. But it has gone to crap. Hardly no one is a virgin when they get married anymore. It's just WRONG!

Answer 7

Never lose yourself in the process of growing. Yes you will have urges that is normal as your body grows and develops. But stick with your beliefs and self respect and do not let them get the best of you!!!

Answer 8

think about the chances of u getting pregnant with some guy. then think if u do get pregnant will he be there 2 help u. if i were u i would wait 4 the rite man and please wiat that 1 person had a point. u only loose your virginaty once
good luck

Answer 9

Remember you can only give up your virginity once. If you intend to get married you may want to ask yourself, "how will I explain my actions to my future husband if I become sexually active?" as your virginity is the one and only special gift that only you can give to your future husband. Don't disappoint yourself and don't allow him to be disappointed either. You will NEVER regret that decision.

Answer 10

If all else fails, pray.

Or buy a chastity belt.

Either way, you won't stop the urges, but they can be resisted.