long story short,i snuck out of my house to see my 18 year old girlfriend,i'm 15,she has been through alot of tough relationships and even though i am 15 i LOVE her, my grand parents found out kicked me out to live with my mom i now have no friends i moved 3 hours away and only talk to Katie,my girlfriend, on the phone i want 2 break up with her beacouse i dont think its fair to her recently she told me she loved me and that she is comming to college near me so we can be together what should i do???
2006-06-17 12:16:49 · 16 answers · asked by thorofblood 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes,justme it is and im shure
2006-06-18 09:39:23 · update #1
wow ok so if u love her u would not think to break up w/ her.... long distance realatioships are real hard believe me im doin it right now... but i'm married now big difference. married to a soldier.... so back to u.... if u LOVE her u can make it work and besides she has strong feelings 4 u to be moving to be close to u....aww sweet.... also u can do this... it's a saying i'm sure u heard it........
if u love someone/ something set it free, if it comes back to u it was always urs.. if not it never was......
sooo this is all up to u and ur feeling u have 4 her..... i hope everthing works out 4 u.... best of luck
2006-06-17 12:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I replied to you in another thread, if you read that you know where I stand here. But I have something to say about this matter. Your family is only trying to protect you from finding out the realities of love at such a young age. And Frankly I think perhaps you are right to have tried to break things off. You simply are not ready for the intensity that is being brought into your life with this relationship. It seems to me she might be trying to reel you in as some might say by moving to a school close to you. She is a grown woman , she should know better. You are 15, it is not fair to you not to live your life, not to at least see what it is like doing the highschool dating thing. It is wonderful! Life is short, don't tie yourself down yet. Experiences is what life is all about, if you decide one of the most important things now you might leanr quickly the hardest things in the world to learn. Things most people spend years moving toward. Break it off, do both of yourselves a favor. If by the time you are 18 you both feel the same way about each other, try again. At least wait until you are of legal age to buy ciggarettes!
2006-06-17 16:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by jennanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grand parents are scum and hypocrits... they had sex yet they punish you for it??? and kick out a 15 year old?
Clearly they want you to end up a junkie on the streets so you should break in to their house and make out (you dont have to go all the way) on their bed to get them back.
You two love each other why let those nasty to you win especailly if she is comming to be with you.
Your grand parents are like abusers don't let them get away with the way they treated you...
Its their job to guide you through first realtionships, help you fall in love, give you good tips and be there forwe you when things aint working out.
So they hurt you... hurt them back... Destroy whats most precious to them... See how they like payback.
Better still have a party in their house with your friends they stole.
Justice
Be with your girlfriend, she cares for you... your grands don't so you owe them nothing.
2006-06-18 01:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't decide your future. Break it down into something less enormous. You have a lot of issues there and probably need to speak face to face to a counsellor, perhaps at school/college, to
really deal sensibly with this. It all sounds overwhelming but you will get through it with a little less pressure on yourself.
2006-06-17 12:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young and still need to live your life.Being in love at 15 is hard.I think you should wait and find your real true love later in life.
2006-06-17 12:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Mandie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think with your balls, not with your brain. You won't always have an 18 year old girlfriend, so make the most of your youth (and hers) and get your cookies while you can.
2006-06-17 12:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kango Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her you shouldn't break up with her, since you know she is moving really close to you. Unless you are afraid she is only going to that college to stalk you....
2006-06-17 12:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sazziable 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question. You are so young and your feelings are very important you just need to follow your heart
2006-06-17 12:18:54 · answer #8 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read a news article.
2016-03-27 19:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is entirely up to you, if you love her then follow your heart on this one. Do what your heart tells you is the right thing to do.
2006-06-17 12:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by max_uk18uk22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋