i m depressed b'coz my best friend is taller than me n i'm short.
she is more pretty than me. she is always centre of attraction. i start losing my confidence whenever i'm with her????
2006-06-17 12:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmmm...you could stop hanging out with her. You could find more friends.
I think one day you will realize that beauty is only skin deep. One day you'll find a great guy that will be interested in you and not her. =)
If you feel bad when you are with her, I would consider spending less time with her and more time working on youself.
Good Luck!
2006-06-17 12:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was taught as a child that i was no better than anyone else in this world but that there was no one else in this world any better than me either....looks money expensive clothes height weight do not make the person.....personality is where its at...and did you ever stop to think that maybe being with you gives your friend more confidence? she may need your strenght to give her the confidence that she has......i was never a pretty child or considered myself to be a pretty adult but what i have found now is people are always telling me how beautiful i am becasue of my personality...beauty comes from the inside not the outside....and only you can make that happen ...be a good kind caring honest person....shine in your own special way ....be yourself....and see what happens.....the person who feels and cares about others is the one who shines more glowingly than the most beautiful person in the world....don't be jealous sweetie....just make your heart beautiful and you will be even more beautiful than your friend.....
2006-06-17 12:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are--but it could be possible that you'll grow more.
Funny, but I always felt bad that I was taller than most of the other girls--and some of the boys! Being short has its advantages--there are a lot of short guys out there--and you have your pick of the short, medium and tall guys.
2006-06-17 12:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel the same way when I was in high school. I had a friend who was cooler than me and looked better and was the center of attraction. But since high school got out he told me that he felt that I was cool and better than him and the center of attraction. He told me hi idolized me. So I think it's all in your head. Everyone is different in their own special way. People are attracted to all sorts of people that's what makes life so fun. I bet obviously your friend likes you and I wouldn't be too surprised if she thinks your better than her. :) hang in there it's not that big of a deal your sweating over nothing. I wish I knew what I know now when I was in high school
2006-06-17 12:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by nightrider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Don't do this to yourself. There will always be taller, cuter, blah,blah...You are special because there is no one else like you. Start changing your thinking. Focus on what you enjoy or learn something you really like. Do this just for you. As you learn you grow...as you grow you become more confidant and others will be jealous of you. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER compare yourself to others for validation or approval. THIS MUST COME FROM WITHIN. Be kind, think of others more than yourself. Be giving and understanding. BUT FIRST...YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF.
2006-06-17 12:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by hunkeydoorey101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUANE: Look in the mirror each morning, you will be you no matter what . learn to accept the gift, "yes gift" you can be very beautiful, but beauty is for those that want beauty. and sometimes those that want beauty still is not satisfied. Know that when you and she goes out on the town that some one is looking at her and some one is looking at you, she'll end up going he way and you will end up going your way and will have the same fun, both of you will have something to tell the other, and I know you will. contact me for more, I dont mind telling you, I have the gift and i have to use it. (Smile).
2006-06-17 12:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt that way before, but I had to learn to stop putting myself down. When you think your ugly, people think your ugly. And while your friend is enjoying her attention, someone prettier than her is going to steel the spotlight. You shouldn't feel that way. Because if you feel thet way, imagine how she feels when someone prettier than her comes around her. She not the best looking person in the world you know!
2006-06-17 12:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by fizzmemethomas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not stand next to her
You are a beautiful young girl, do not compare yourself the anyone else.
Live you own dreams
2006-06-17 12:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by chairbinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lets see some pics so we can drool all over you.
2006-06-17 12:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it!
2006-06-17 12:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by applpro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋