What can I do to become popular?

Question

i hope you don't think i'm gay :D

but seriously
i'm not a freak or anythinggg
i have a lot of popular friends
but i'm not really a part of their group
i think it would be cool to hang out with them after school~~

i don't want to become popular for attention
i just think the scene kids are COOLpeople
and the rest of my school is made up of ghetto hackers
but whatever

another question i have is
why am i not popular?
iswear i'm not gayyy D':

but i'm funny enough
i'm not that ugly
i don't dress like a freak
i'm confident sortof?

JESUSHATES ME
WHY

okokok
one last thing
please don't say
"JUSTBE YOURSELF"

because that's a hippie answer ok~

THANKS GUYS
PEACE :D

okguys
i don't think i'm faking or anything
posers are weird

i just wonder if there's anything else i can do while notmaking myself look like a stoner

thanks thoughhhh
it's so nice to know that people care~~~

Answer 1

FIrst of all let's get this straight, Jesus doesn't hate you but loves you.Jesus reached many people but also was hated by many people. He was popular to the outcasts and the "gettohackers" of his time .It's natural to want to be popular. Who doesn't want people to like them. The fact is you can't please all people. Many surrender their bodies for sex just to be popular but end up with scars that will haunt them for the rest of their lives. Many people do stupid things to get attention but end up being a fool in the bunch( I know I was the class clown ) but I would say be funny enough to have a sense of humor but be smart enough to try to show people your not dumb. This way you win the favor of different types of people. I was not from a rich family , and I found out that many kids fall under the snobish group and I hope thats not you. Just try to stay on the level with all types of people and you will become friends with many people. It really works because people will know that you are not a put on or a snob. Show respect and you will be respected. You earn peoples respect - It just don't fall into peoples laps.Be all you can be for the right cause and with the right motives and you will go far in life ( just like Jesus who loves you for who you are not what everybody else thinks you ought to be). Good luck!

Answer 2

a lot of people have a serious look on their face all the time. if you're not smiling enough people won't want to look at you or hang with you. you may actually have to practice in the mirror like an actor....seriously!!! if you have that problem it will take about two weeks of constant work to fix it. then watch things start to change...people will ask you things like, did you get a haircut, are you doing something different with your make up. or guys will say there's something different about you. make them start wondering what you are smiling about, the intrugue will make them curious.
it's not that hard if you are sincere, interesting and not overly critical....plus knock off saying stuff like Jesushatesme. what does that mean even mean? if it's a joke it isn't funny to anyone.
people who don't believe in him don't care and those who may will be offended...with statements like that about Mohommod or Budda you'd offend people too so try to not be abrasive.
being funny even quirky and eclectic are acceptable traits, just don't be obnoxious.
you really are cute and have nice hair, there is no reason that a smart person(not smart*ss) like yourself shouldn't be one of the most popular in your crowd. that is probably what is confusing to you too, you see the potential, you just need to use a little more charm.
do you have brothers who picked on you while growing up? or a grouchy mom or dad? but even so, you do have some control.
now go out there with a song in your heart and be upbeat and funny with out getting dragged into to many negitive topics. at least during the training phase;)
Mainly have fun and be fun to be around and I think you can turn the boat around.
Best Wishes!

Answer 3

trying to be popular always leads to people doing stupid thing to be part of the crowd.
Don't do anything stupid.

and if your just being yourself and that's not working for you then you need to let it work for you and be satisfied with you.

Why don;t you just go and show up at these places.
Crash the party.
If you hang with these people sometimes anyway they will be alright with you just showing up.

Not to mention your a cutie pie.
Look in the mirror and love what you see and that's all that matter.
Just sound like BLAH BLAH to you but the older you get the more you will realize what other people think ain't worth a penny.

Answer 4

to be popular you have to be 1 of 3 things and 1] is be flerty to all the guys 2] be from a rich family or 3] be mean to all the unpopular people so other than be yourself and what you think is cool than theres nothing you can do . so be happy beleave in yourself and you will be popular with your friends-

Answer 5

1.Try to hang out with cooler friends
2.Put your opinion on everything
3.Get a boyfriend
4.Usually popular people are skinny so if your big slim down.
5.Be mean to people
6.And last but not least wear the most stylish clothes

Hope that helps

Answer 6

if you are not going to be yourself and have to fake a different personality then it wont work and you'll look weird, its all on the attitude and the way one carries himself.

Answer 7

DON"T WORRY...YOU are ALREADY Popular!!! Don't Sweat about it!
Look I'm Answering YOUR question, ain't that special??

Answer 8

Sleep with every guy you meet . You"ll soon be VERY POPULAR!!