if I moved to a new town, dont drive, dont leave the apartment, dont have a job, and dont know a soul here? except my roommate who is very VERY mean to me. What should I do?
2006-06-17 11:54:43 · 9 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if it's a safe neighborhood go for walks, find a coffee shop, ask for a job and you'll make more friends and you can dump the mean roomie and get a new one, maybe even a boyfriend!!!
2006-06-17 11:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the apartment - look for a job, hopefully in an area/place that will allow for you to meet ppl - find something that you like to do and do it - and be assertive with your mean roomate, sometimes bullies just need a good comeback for them to leave you alone... but from someone that has had her bouts with depression am letting you know, you CAN overcome it but it won't happen by itself, you have to take off the pity party dress and DO something about it! Life is too precious... tomorrow is not promised, that is why today is called a PRESENT! (LOL, I know it sounds cliche but hey, it worked for me so I figured it could work for you too!) Good Luck!
2006-06-17 19:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kandela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the roommate to cut it out and help you find a job. Get out of the apartment and meet the neighbors. Start a walking club(good exercise). Get those resumes out there!!! Be in action!!!! or be depressed. Choose. Peace.
2006-06-17 19:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel the same way about my 2 Children where they grew up for 18 and 19 yrs of their lives and than we moved them away. They started new jobs and met new friends, but continued contact with their old friends. I would suggest, you work, read, and pick up a new hobbie. Paint, sew, etc Good luck!!
2006-06-17 19:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hobby, ie. recreational sports to make friends (somewhere close so you can walk/bike there) get a job to buy that car :) and ignore the mean roommate. If your new there, they dont know you well enough to be mean and actually mean it.
2006-06-17 19:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by LifeIsAHighway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it's time for you to get out of the house!!!! go to a bar, or a concert!! strike up a conversation with another loner-- and see where it leads you--- life is spontaneous no matter how much you plan-- but it's more enjoyable if you make spontaneous your way instead of life's way
2006-06-17 18:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by if you could would you? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out take a walk , ride a buss to a park just get out see people be seen by people and find a job and get your own place
2006-06-17 19:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out of the house that is the only way you'll make friends.And if you don't like your roommate cuse her *** out!Then she'll leave you alone.
2006-06-17 19:03:47 · answer #8 · answered by shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join an activity orsomething
make friendsss
as long as you're not fat it'll be ok~
2006-06-17 18:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by winniemazing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋