2006-06-17 11:38:34 · 34 answers · asked by casey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cheating on you..
2006-06-17 11:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by tortilla2go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should most definately be worried about this. First of all it demeans you as a woman because there are PLENTY of single men out there that you don't have to resort to "dating" a married man. Second, since he cheated on his wife before what kind of man does that tell you that he is? Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. He is exposing you to all kinds of diseases by his filandering lifestyle. Thirdly and most importantly, the fact that he is willing to repeatedly behave so poorly and disrespect his wife (and especially if there are children involved) that he took vows with makes him lower than low. He needs to grow up and you need serious counseling if you have to ask if there's something you should worry about. Would you want to be the wife who's being cheated on? As a mother of 2 children who went through a cheating husband and a divorce trust me this is not something you want on your conscience if you have even one ounce of dignity.
2006-06-17 11:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by ravenelf725 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i been in your shoes and the man i was seeing moved in with me for three months and guess what he went back to his wife i was devasted because i gave him all my time and energy just for him to up and leave after he left i moved to another state because thats how bad he hurt me.. i eventually moved back home because i was told he had moved so i didnt have to worry about ever seeing him again...wrong two months after i moved back home and started working at a store i had trandferred to guess who started working there..correct him a couple of weeks after he started working he wanted to start seeing each other again i told him no and now he is seeing another female at work and yes he is still married..so yes you do need to be worried because i feel sorry for the female he is seeing now because his wife is nothing nice...and yes if he has cheated on his wife with you he will cheat on you too...i wasnt the first time he cheated on his wife i was like #5 and his wife told me that sorry i couldnt give you good new but if you dont want to get hurt in the end then i would leave asap
2006-06-17 12:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by G's Gurl for life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question- Do you like being around liars? I only ask because you seem ok with it. (I'm not*)
I'm calling your boyfriend a liar because he's cheating on his wife. Once upon a time, he made a promise to her, and now, by simply being with you, he's breaking that promise. In my book that qualifies him as a liar, or at least a hypocrite.
And as others have said, Once a cheat, always a cheat... If he will (in your case, he already has) lying for you, he'll lie to you.
*I once dumped a guy for lying to me. He said again and again that he didn't smoke, but I tasted it on his breath one night... He was on his own within a week!!
*On the other hand, I dated a guy that was up-front about his smoking. He acknowledged it, mentioned that he was trying to quit... We are now married.
2006-06-17 12:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will cheat on you. He is STILL married so you are not a too msart in the first place. I mean what do you think. He made a lifetime commitment to his wife and didn;t keep that so why would he keepit for u just a girl on the side.??? REMEMBEr what goes around comes around so make sure you want this to come back around to you when you are married...
2006-06-17 11:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure which part of this to get upset about first.
1st - don't go out with married men
2nd - he's cheated on his wife before!!!! so what do you think it doesn't count this time because he is with you?
3rd - if he's cheated on her he will cheat on you
Don't tell me you are 18 or younger and he is in his 30's right.
2006-06-17 11:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh? like yeah! Why would you want to be involved with a married man anyway? He will never leave you for his wife, so get that silly idea out of your head....no matter what he tells you.
There are so many other men out there without all the baggage. Run and leave this loser behind!! Then clear your head and ask yourself what you were thinking?
Once you do that...then get involved with a man who you can be involved with...you know, one who is available and not married. Who would want to be in a love triangle anyway?
2006-06-17 16:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if he's cheating on his wife, then later on if you and him get married or something how do you know that he won't cheat on you? He just might, if he's got the experience then he can do it again.
2006-06-17 11:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something you shouldn't be doing. Let him cheat on his wife, but not with you. Find a man who loves and respects you.
2006-06-17 11:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are seeing a married man do you honestly think he is going to leave his wife for you and he done it before yes you have a lot to worry about. run and find a single guy they are out there.
2006-06-18 05:23:40 · answer #10 · answered by olive_olive_72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. A man who has cheated not only on you but his wife is a man asking to be caught.
2006-06-17 11:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by nosepicker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋