If your fiance was talking dirty to other girls online would you think that was cheating?

Question

I found that my fiance was talking dirty to other girls, while I was not home. I have been staying with my parents after surgery. He told me he was lonely and that is why he did it. Do I forgive him? We are suppost to be married next year, and I find this stuff on the computer when I return home. He actually talked online to several girls on our ten month anniversary!

Answer 1

i'm still wrestling with this one myself

Answer 2

First of all men are dirty dirt bags... That said we still love them any way. Men think about sex once every ten seconds. It's almost biological or pathological. My point is why should it matter were he works up an appetite as long as he eats at home. I also doubt that it was lonely he was feeling, sound to me it was more like Horny.

Answer 3

~Yes, it's cheating. Online or not... it is still cheating, same thing if he was talking dirty to someone on the phone. People think that online relationships are fake... but that's how my man and I met initially. Even when online, it could lead to something more serious.~

Answer 4

no I don't think its cheating. I am married and I absolutely adore my husband, I have two beautiful sons and I talk on here and give some dirty advice sometimes. I enjoy talking dirty to the guys and having fun sometimes but my husband could never be replaced by anyone so give him the benefit of the doubt and tell him how you feel

Answer 5

I would have been so pissed! That is considered cheating! That is just like talking to other girls. He should have been there for you and visited frequently if he missed you so. If you don't put a stop to it now, he'll do it when you're married and it will get worse. Good luck!

Answer 6

you already know the answer. are you prepared to stay by his side the rest of your life.. so he wont get lonely and talk to other girls. that is the lamest excuse i have ever heard. also he had no respect for you being ill or your anniversary. suspose you have children.. while you are in the hospital with his child... he is hooking up on line. pleasssse... dump that idiot..

Answer 7

Talking dirty to women is a Fanatsiz for men,Nothing more. being lonely anything to pass away time.

Answer 8

hell, get over it, it's talking, you are already setting up who he can and can't talk to, what's it gonna be like being married to you? it's fun talking to people, you learn a lot and you have fun, don't take the fun out of his life, he will hate you for it. do you actually think you can be his all his everything and he won't crave outside communication with other people? I talk to gurls all the time of all ages, it's fun talking to people and making friends. try it sometime. I have talked to some remarkable people online. I wouldn't let anyone stop me from talking to other people, and he shouldn't either.

Answer 9

I'm sorry but he has no right talking to other girls on line I'm mean he haves u why iz he talking to others and not only iz it getting to u but what about da girls on the internet he iz messing with gurls head dat want boyfriends unless he iz goin out with them n u

Answer 10

I think that this is cheating..and his behavior isn't substantiated by your being ill, and away. I believe that if he is doing this..when you are away..he will continue to do this..behind your back.
Is this guy really the right one for you if he is doing this? Are you willing to accept this behavior from him. You two aren't married yet..there is still time to connect with someone who will not do this behind your back.

Answer 11

i consider it cheating. from a girls perspective id be so pissed id probably kick his ***. i probably wouldnt break it off with him id be pissed for a long time and he would have to kiss my butt for a while but i would definatly tell him if he does it again its over because if he will talk like that to someone on the internet he would probably do it in person.