In some gaming community, the majority of the people believe I cheat. They are sure I cheat, that I do some things against the rules.
If I ask them to prove it, they start changing the subject or replying with retorts.
The problem is, it is quite hard to prove that yoy aren't cheating...
What should I do to make them figure out I never cheated? How do I tell them to listen to me? What do I do?
2006-06-17 11:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymously Anonymous 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I can't just say ''yeah, ok'', that isn't an option.
And I also want tostay within this community.
The problem is that a few outsiders are jealous and sore, so they accuse you. Then, the community members look at you in detail and start feeling the same.
They can't prove anything, but I cannot discourage them either...
2006-06-18 00:41:11 · update #1
The two answers that appeared when I started to answer are opposite - but each good. One says to find a different group to play cards with; the other to do nothing because you didn't cheat.
If it were me, I would find another group to play with--but I would still want the first people to know that I was not a cheater--and offended that they thought I was. You're right--it is quite hard to prove you are not cheating--if they are your friends, you could take one aside, and just tell him the truth.
Good luck. :)
2006-06-17 11:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's frustrating when you are accused of something you didn't do. Unfortunately, you are never going to be able to convince the accuser.
They just may be saying that because you played quite well and they know it and they are jealous.
The fact that they are changing the subject should tell you something right there.
Stop wasting your energy by trying to prove something to a group of ignorant people and move on.
I would suggest maybe finding a different group to play with.
2006-06-17 18:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a different group of people to play cards or whatever with. They may be jealous of your luck.
2006-06-17 18:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask one of them to stay close to you during 1-2-3 games and ,so ,he can see that you are lucky and they are mistaken about you.
2006-06-17 18:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by paris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing. If you cheated, then you cheated, if you didn't why do you need to defend yourself?
Just say, "yeah, ok?"
2006-06-17 18:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? What does it matter? They will either believe you or not. That is their problem not yours.
2006-06-17 18:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by NORTH WEST 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋