my boyfriend and i have had sex.like alot. the thing is i dont know if i should stay with him im only 14 and he is 18. i love him. i dont know what should i do.??
2006-06-17 11:21:42 · 10 answers · asked by Leslie B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are you staying with him because you've had sex or because you like the sex? Why are you thinking about leaving your boyfriend? If you are thinking about leaving for reasons that can't be ignored then you should. Why do you love him? Do you know what love is? When I was 14 I know I didn't have a clue but sex doesn't make love and love doesn't mean sex. Is he holding sex as a key to keep you? You need to do what's right for you and just because he's 18 doens't mean he knows what's best for you...you don't even know what's best for you so do what you feel and what you think is right and that will probably be best for both of you.
2006-06-17 11:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by easternchic2 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you really want to be with someone who is willing to have sex with a 14 year old when he is considered and adult?!?!?! Would you have sex with a 10 year old??? Think of it that way. You are too young to be having sex let alone with an 18 year old. If you were to get pregnant now, your whole life could be thrown away. It takes time and money and focus to raise a baby - you need to change your focus from your WAY too old boyfriend and put it back on getting an education and growing up to do something good and worthwhile with your life.
2006-06-17 18:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by GoldensandJacks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 !!!!????
The doodd is 18? OMG. Thats considered rape in most states.
Do you love him or how he makes you feel? Probably the later.
Sex is NOT love. remember that. Love is everything else that makes you happy in a relationship.
2006-06-17 18:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are too young to be having sex.!!!! and to young to be dating at all!D!!!! does you mother know!!! are you using protection!!!! i would kill my daughter if she was having sex at 14, my daughter is 14, and i wont let her have a boyfriend until she is 16!!! you are too young to deal with a serious relationships ; Especially with a guy that much older than you.
you should be hanging out with friends and guys your own age.!!!!
2006-06-17 18:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by dayzee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what to do. U R A WHORE! 14? ur still a baby! focus on life, like school. NOT guys. u have ur whole life to chase them, not to prepare CORRECTLY for ur future! u NEED an education, i can tell.
2006-06-17 18:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cousin is 18 and he is dating a 14, but i don't know if they do it. i geuss stay with him because if you love someone and they love you back then ya'll should be together
2006-06-17 18:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by koolaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's illegal for him to be having sex with you since you are a minor and he shoudl know that. Dump him and stop having sex until you are an adult.
2006-06-17 18:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should date someone your own age he is to old for you
2006-06-17 18:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Dntjudgeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey bye....he need to find somone his own age and my dear you need to sat ur hot azz down somewhere go watch nick jr.
2006-06-17 18:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...I think that you should leave him... you dont knoe what true love is... just leave him... and dont have sex until your married and you will not have to worry about anything!
2006-06-17 18:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by kass0frass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋