would really lyk yo be seein her properly. also another female freind who i wos gettin close 2 recently blew me out on a weekend away with freinds in favour of spendin the weekend with other freinds. wot do i do?
2006-06-17 11:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by razor 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I assume you are pretty young.
First, don't worry about being shy with girls. Stay friends with the one you mention but don't feel that has to be a romantic relationship. That friendship should help you overcome your shyness, and--if her status changes later on--you might be in a good position to build a more romantic relationship.
Don't worry about the one that blew you off.
Many girls are shy with guys. There isn't that much to either guys or girls to be shy about. Friendship can always work. Don't ask for more unless you're sure.
2006-06-17 11:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
firstly, learn to spell so we can read your questions easily! (it's FRIENDS, not FREINDS!)
Do you change your objects of affection very often? However, if you stay calm and do not make a fool of yourself, then you have a chance. When the girl you like with the boyfriend leaves him, be friendly - but don't jump in right away. Perhaps then she will see you as boyfriend material.
As for the girl that blew out some friends to spend time with other friends, why shouldn't she? Perhaps one lot of her pals were doing more interesting things than the other lot? It is possible to have more than one group of friends!
So relax - if things are supposed to happen, they will. But don't force anything - pushy blokes put girls off. And the best relationships come with friendship first. Shyness will not put her off - if she is keen, she will make the first move!
Good luck with your love life - and your spelling!
2006-06-17 11:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry cause i was in the same position. I like this girl ever since I started the 8th grade but i never told her that i liked her till the end of the school year. Right about this time i had wrote her a poem to tell her how I felt about this once I told her she asked me whether I was kidding or not. BUT I WAS FOR REAL!!! What im trying to tell u is if u like her than tell her what makes u happy inside which is her but if she is tooken bysomeone that u think wont treat her right than just move on!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks
2006-06-17 11:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen babe you should tell her how you feel even if your shy tell her there's no pressure cause your not going to intervene in her relationship and she can always count on your friendship and that you won't jeopardize the friendship unless she wants to
2006-06-17 11:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing. If she's taken, it's really unlikely she'll drop the guy for you and more likely she'll feel weird about you, if you tell her.
2006-06-17 14:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Eden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Just keep on being around her. She does have girl friends; you might like one of them.
2006-06-17 11:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, remember to wear your helmet and bib.
2006-06-17 11:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Galen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋