Was people born gay....?

Question

or were they infected by the idea that they were doing things outside the norm for there gender, like if you see a little boy put on a wig, you would say he is gay or will be gay, but actors can do the same thing, and it want be consider that way, its humor, some what a question of nature v. nurture, could a parent implant that there child is gay, from a young age, thus' the child feels they were born that way, this question is formed out of the fact my cousin is gay, breast and all, and when he was little his mother would do and say things to him that would imply he was a girl, or gay. And If this is the case, should people stop doing things like that, and let nature play itself out? im asking because, my sister friend little boy has feminie behaviors, and my sister says hes gay, and now his firend my niece is saying he acts like my cousin forth mentioned, there both only 5 years old, but I dont want the boy to feel that he is outside of hes sex, based on how others view his behaviors

how would you know its not a choice, If you were implanted with that knowledge, jsut like why are people bad, you not going to say they were born that way, your going to say the enviorment they live in

Oh and Im not really talking about women, because they can be gay one min. and str* the next, " I was just experimenting"

how would I know, my parent raised me in the enviorment where I was men liked women, women liked men, my cousin grew up in the same type of enviroment, and is gay, the only differences is how he was treated

For that person who said Im a homophobe, not in the least, I just dont competely buy into the fact that someone was born a certain way, but was introduced to a thinking that they were, on the grounds of how they behave at a young age, now again girl may be born that way, they are little freak when theyre little, so is boys, but I want every tell either sex, they are gay, or stop acting like girls, or boys, because most of the time theyre just trying to get a laugh out of people

Thats the thing, where do you seperate experiment from realty, I have cought my niece doing thing outside her gender, so to speak, and same thing for my little cousin, thats why I said theyre little freaks, but at some point, some one told them they were doing something wrong, animals preform homosexual behavior as well, but in their society, its ok, and its done for pleasure, but then they still have a female and I'm talking about a group of apes, I saw way back, they would have sex with both sexes, but then in our society, you have people taking on a complete lifestyle change, in roman, and in asian societys homosexual behavior was ok, as long as you had a

as long as you had a female confidont, you were not gay, but when people start saying only one behavior was right, we started asking these question, and then labeling people for behaving certain ways, and then they became gay, a complete lifestyle change, its one thing to experiment, its another to become that experiment, and I dont think Im one sided, but i think if people didnt implant there kids certain way, we would probably have a better society, in that if you dont regard certain thing there not there, so then you have to ask if we regard people as gay for having sex with men, then they do exist, and are outside of the norm, and this goes for every thing, even how we regard race, and with gays or without, Im going to treat them as Humans

Answer 1

i definitely think we should just let nature play it self out.
i also think making comments like your aunt and sister make
did and do can and will cause a person to rethink the situation
and ask them self's am i gay? it does implant the idea.
that's not to say they wouldn't end up gay anyway.
but you are right i do think it will cause them to feel outside of there sex. and if you are in fact born that way. then you don't need your love ones blindly causing felling of shame.at such a young age. i have a daughter and if she ends up being gay i
don't want to have done or said anything through out her life
to make her feel unsupported.

Answer 2

People are born with inert preferences. Just like Heterosexuals, Homosexuals have the mental preference that makes them enjoy the same sex more than the opposite.

Homosexuality has been around since the begining of human history and we have managed to live this long. There is Greek pottery of Homosexual behavior dating from before the Bible.

Children experiment!!! This is how they learn What they like!!! Behavior as a child can be very deceiving!!! If you see a "Tom-Boy", do you assume that she is going to be a Lesbian? Not necessarily!!! This is just what she perfers in clothes and life-style.

Good Question!! Just be open-minded enough to except the child as they are and give them love!

Answer 3

Who cares why people love who they do? Why do so many straight people need to understand homosexuality? Live and let live. I'm straight... It just leaves more girls for me!

There is much evidence that homosexual tendencies often start to show at a very young age, even younger than 5.

Then, usually, the parents try and make the child be something they are not and it takes the next 25 years for the kid to get his head straight.

Answer 4

Human sexuality is set at beginning, basically because it truly is with different animals. in actuality, bisexual and gay habit has been documented in extra advantageous than 450 animal species worldwide. The e book organic and organic Exuberance is a great compilation of this learn. There are basically as many gays and lesbians now as there ever have been formerly -- approximately 10% of the final inhabitants. that's actual everywhere interior the worldwide. the only difference is how open persons are waiting to be approximately their sexuality. for particular, in international locations the place homosexuality is against the regulation, gay subculture is pushed underground.

Answer 5

Nobody is born "gay" It's a choice you make like everything else. Homosexuals like to use this as an excuse for their behavior. It's like saying you were born a " cheater" or a "criminal". People decide what they want to be and then fulfill that idea. The idea may be planted by someone else - but it's still their choice.

Answer 6

If at birth we separated people by Chromosomal sex, and they knew nothing about being contained... would they all be homosexuals?

Could they even fantasize about the "opposite" sex? Would gender still exist?


I understand what you're saying. People get labeled and then come to accept the label ALL the time.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

i'm not really sure but parental influence has a lot to do with a childs adult life. i think it is the same when a child gets abused, who gets spoiled, who is treated normal, or anything else? Why do you think shrinks make so much money. It just seems that now parents don't think as much as they used too . kids are running the parents, i could go on and on but it willl get away from your question

Answer 9

It's genetic. I would not choose to be gay, but quite frankly it is not a choice at all. The only choice is whether to abstain or not. As far as how little kids act, honestly, they are KIDS. That's like saying Bert & Ernie from sesame street are gay.....they're 6 YEARS OLD!!! For crying out loud, get a life!

Answer 10

Approximately two percent of the world's population is homosexual. That ratio is constant.

If you were to kill every gay person on this planet...in other words, if Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell were to get their way...in the next generation, approximately two percent would be homosexual.

Man hates.
Nature just keeps on truckin'.

Answer 11

Does this question really matter? Whether it is nature or nurture the fact is that a gay is gay. No one can change that fact and knowing what caused it doesn't really mean anything to anyone. So love your kids and hope they have wonderful and happy lives whether staight or gay.