My husband is desperately trying to find a way to convince me to have sex right now. I don't have any ideas for him... do you?
2006-06-17 10:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to make things clear... we just had sex last night and again this morning...it's not that I'm against having sex with my husband you freaks... I'm just tired.
2006-06-17 10:30:00 · update #1
cause you will feel great after its done, and he will stop bugging you for it.
2006-06-17 10:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well why don't you want to have sex? Are you bored with the way things are going? Are you so stressed out that it's the last thing on your mind? Sex is suppossed to be a way to show your love and appreciation for your spouse. If it's a chore than obviously you aren't going to want to participate. Your husband needs to pick an opportune time for both of you. During the week is always a hectic time for everyone and you can't go on an escapade all night and expect to be bright eyed in the morning. Use the element of surprise to your advantage...that will always be the winning key. Your husband needs to do something different. You can't just jump into bed and go for it if that's the way it's always been. Spice things up! Add that something you're missing and don't be afraid to experiment. You're in it for the long haul with your husband, don't be afraid or embarrasses. If you don't like it then don't do it again but if you find something you both like then problem solved, you're sure to be open to the idea of having sex. Good Luck and HAVE FUN!
2006-06-17 17:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by easternchic2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person that can change your mind is you... And honestly be happy that he will take the time to convence you that you two should be having sex... That at least shows a healthy relationship on his half.. But by you asking us that means that you have some doubts abotu having sex with him.
2006-06-17 17:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Big John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you had sex before or a new thing if you guys are married should it really matter if you guys have sex or not i mean your married that means you guys can all the time when ever and where ever you want,,,,you should give it a try
2006-06-17 17:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by hotchick_85_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just lay on your back and let him throw it up in ya! GOD I'm sure he'd do you when you want it. Thats the problem with you woman you think it's something special for him to get well missy he can get it anywhere so give it to him when where and any time he want. It's not gold your sitting on geez.
2006-06-17 17:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you women use sex as a weapon?
it's not nice and it's not really fair.
I always love it when a guy denys his woman something she really wants because you know she has it coming for an event just like this one.
2006-06-17 17:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has to "convince you", I feel sorry for him.
I thought that was something special you would gladly share with your husband without needing to be convinced. I'm glad I didn't marry you.
2006-06-17 17:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about if he serves you up 3 consecutive o's
2006-06-17 17:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants it bad enough he will find someone to give it to him. I don't know your reasons for not wanting to do this but maybe a little porn would help.
2006-06-17 17:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he need to convince you? Seek counseling.
2006-06-17 17:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Galen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him up front.
If he can't do it right the first time, don't kum back till you can.
. Good Luck.
2006-06-17 17:36:33 · answer #11 · answered by Mr.Potato Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋