because I know someone who means (or maybe meant by now) a lot to me has been telling me lies as I know by now. How can I distract myself? I'm only sitting around, doing nothing but thinking about this ..... and I can't even talk to him now to tell him how I feel because he's not here ....... It's the middle of the night where I live so I can't go for a walk or something .......
2006-06-17 10:11:54 · 10 answers · asked by Eudora 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Read a book, watch t.v., take a sleeping pill only one and go to bed.
It wont do you any good to tell him how you feel. when you love some one their feelings are always on your mind and obviously yours weren't on his mind.
If you try to fix this with him he will do it again.
If he trys to fix it with you then there might be something there to work with.
2006-06-17 10:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by sassy sue 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
read a book or watch a favorite movie, also just take your time because that's what it is going to take, I have ex's that have hurt me way to long ago and I still dwell on the whole situation, and oh how I wish I could just snap my fingers and forget about it. it's not that easy though unfortunately, find yourself some people to meet and talk with here on the internet in chatrooms, why can't you go out for a walk just because it is the middle of the night? unless your in a place where you don't feel safe doing that than I fully reccommend going out for a walk at night, under the stars and the moon, some of the best thinking gets done there, anyways, wish you luck
2006-06-17 10:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar you need to find things that make you happy.
Create a life for you that is happy without someone else in it,, then you will be in a position to find someone that enhances your world rather than brings more pain to it.
I wish you the best, but you have to turn off the thoughts of that person that lied to you.
2006-06-17 10:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he meant allot to you then you can't really get him off your mind trust me I know unless you realize that he there might and probably is someone that you care about just as much or maybe even more that won't lie to you and that cares about you just as much as you care about them.
2006-06-17 10:16:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a voodoo doll by hand, be careful not to hurt yourself in the process if it's late and you are tired.
then start paying them back;-)
couldn't hurt and years later you'd get a laugh, especially if you still have it. (if you don't set it on fire!!!!)
good luck, things will get better. blow them off and move on to a more trustworthy person.
2006-06-17 10:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on ur way of behaviour, i mean iam a gay, when i feel lonely i like to have fantasy, so do what u like to do when u r lonely
2006-06-17 10:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by assassin_gay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude this is how i feel every day. boys suck, and so do ppl. just sit back and smoke, it takes away probs at least temporarily. then you can kick back and calm down
2006-06-17 10:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch tv
2006-06-17 10:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are not how he thinks you are. tell him that is the lies.and pray god to help you
2006-06-17 10:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by dark angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to God and tell him to help you
2006-06-17 10:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by doggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋