2006-06-17 09:53:28 · 13 answers · asked by cutearmygirl04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah. Its understandable though. When you feel jealous, just think that those girls were once a part of his life, you are the one who got him!!! He can't censor his life for you; when you married him you married all of him. that includes his past!
2006-06-17 09:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by ChaChaChingThing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do feel you are being silly because if he wanted his ex he would not be married to you. I think that you may have some issues with security. Simply ask him why he needs to talk about his exes, he may have some unresolved issues with the past and it may not have anything to do with his ex.(exes may just be a band-aid)
2006-06-17 18:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by freakysessions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it's perfectly normal to feel a tad bit jealous whenever your husband mentions his past women. But you got to think and also remember, that you are his life now, aand he chose YOU to marry, right? I myself tend to get jealous whenever he mentions them too, and I told him right away that I don't really appriciate it, so he stopped somewhat. It's best that you speak up to him and tell him that you feel slightly jealous whenever he mentions them and I'm so sure he would understand how you feel. Besides, jealousy is healthy. It shows the other person that you really do care about them and they realize that you truely love him.
2006-06-17 17:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. When my hubby brings up his ex I do feel a bit jealous - but not in a crazy type way.
2006-06-17 16:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only natural to feel a little jealous. As long as you don't let it get out of hand. After all, you have to realize that he is with you now, not them. Once, my boyfriend of 4 years left me for another woman and she kept calling him after we had gotten back together. I ended up hiding his cell phone and throwing it away in a dumpster at my job. I felt bad afterward, but I ws not about to go dumpster diving.
2006-06-17 17:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Manda Bear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, and I wouldn't call you silly unless you act like a jealous freak. I bet he doesn't like it any better when you mention your ex boyfriends.
2006-06-17 16:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not silly at all. At one time he loved her and you know that, so we do have some of these feelings like does he still think about her or even maybe he still loves her and wishes he was still with her. I would think at one time or other we all have these feelings. Remember though he is with you and not her, so don't allow these feeling to carry you away with such thoughts and infer with what you two have. Best Of Luck
2006-06-17 16:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is silly, if you feel insecure ( for whatever reason )you should talk to your husband about it. Jealousy is not a good quality to have!
2006-06-17 16:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by Bgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. It's natural to want to grit your teeth every time you hear it.
Just don't say anything, unless it gets really blatant or he starts comparing you. That's not very gentlemanly. Then point it out, but tell him how it makes you feel, don't go up to him with guns blazing.
2006-06-17 16:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is mean or thoughtless of him to do that. Ask him not to. If he keeps it up, start talking about your exes. "Oh, Jimmy was so good looking and he would buy me anything I wanted." See how he likes it.
2006-06-17 17:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋