We both have been married about 20 -30 years and he found me on yahoo. We live 70 miles apart, he is afraid of his wife to leave her. She has threatened him and I deeply care about him.
2006-06-17 09:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by lindavimurs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First off are you married just for the convenience or do you love your husband? Have you met the man you think you are in love with from the computer? I have met alot of men from the internet and most of them are nothing like they say. Speaking from experience no one who is married is ever going tio leave their significant other because that is a security blanket. Fix what is wrong in your marriage before you find yourself completely alone this is advice that I had to take because I was in the same boat. Mine was not fixable so I just divorced him and now date men who I meet outside the internet and know they are single.
2006-06-17 09:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Been there done that 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are going thru. I was married when I met my married guy on yahoo (both of us married for over 20+ years) and that was almost 2 years ago. We are really good friends but we are 2000 miles apart. We have only been together twice in that time and no matter what we cant seem to end things even though it is really tough at times, Mine does not live with his wife but due to financial reasons he has not done anything about it. I myself divorced not due to him but due to an verbally abusive relatinship . You need to decide if you want to hang in or walk away. That is the hardest decision to make, I know myself I have thought of walking away but I have not as of yet. I wish you all the best.
2006-06-18 01:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Both are in the WRONG!! Both of you are Married. If your gonna cheat, Don't do it. Get a divorce first then go on with your lives!! Both of you are going to hurt each others families. She has the right to threaten him though cause he is cheatingg on her. She should know EVERYTHING! Cheating spouses do not deserve to be happy in anyway!! And your husband as well should know everything too cause its bogus that your cheating on your hubby as well!! Which is WRONG in every way possible!!! And if he wants to leave her then he should, but be aware cause his wife and your hubby can sue you guys and get you for adultery!! I have NO Sympathy for any one of you!! If your gonna cheat on someone make sure your not married!!! I hope you both get what you deserve!!
2006-06-17 17:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Bella Trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing in your question sounded normal... you need HELPPPPP! The sanctitude of marriage is nothing on the world wide web. You people make me afraid to own a computer.
2006-06-17 17:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right if he wanted to leave he would...if he really loves you he would leave hes just feeding you with bull so he can have his pie and eat it to!!! And if your not happy in your marriage get out before you decide to have another relationship...nobody deserves to be cheated on!
2006-06-17 16:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by hamc322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it had better be love if you want to bust up 2 families.it isnt too afraid if he still lives with her, sleeps with her, and such.if he really wanted you, then he would leave, dont fall for the game.
2006-06-17 17:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really think about it. think of how how you would be if you left your husband for him. but it sound to me that he just want to have his cake and eat it too, because if he was real serious about leaving his wife, he would have done it.
2006-06-17 17:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by cutearmygirl04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good. You deserve eachother.
I wish you happiness.
oh..BTW. when this happens again somday to both of you, don't get alarmed.
Have a good day.
2006-06-17 16:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Potato Head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him linda your both have rfamilies to thik and care about him
2006-06-17 16:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[PRETTYBUNNY]. IN MY OPION I HAVE TO AGREE WITH ON THIS MATTER..//
2006-06-18 01:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋