Why is it after gay people break up they get so dramatic?

Question

Why do they feel the need to talk crap and destroy the other person's belonging.

itz garry I know a lot of gay people most are friends and they all act this way.Not a single 'straight' couple I have ever known has felt the need to piss on someone's clothing.

You know people I never said that straight people never did this.I just said that I didn't know any..so who is so quick to judge?Its also intersting if I would have posted this in a different section that the answers I would have gotten would be totally different.

Answer 1

It's like a soap opera. So much drama.

Answer 2

Yeah, because heterosexuals (especially women) are just so calm after all break-ups. They always end with a smile and a handshake. Never once has any heterosexual ruined another's belongings. Those stories you see on the news? It's really gay couples but they changed one of the person's gender so people wouldn't sue the company for allowing their children to be infected by the "Gay Agenda".

Answer 3

Because the hurt is so deep. Not always but it happens alot when people are young. And the hurt gets deeper. The pain is so painful but the reasons are so different.

I know many straight people that have done some real bad thing too. Too many to tell. Woman burn mens clothing. My mom threw a knive at my step dad. My dad pulled a gun on my mom.

Answer 4

Sweetie, maybe your friends just have issues. I don't know a single person, gay or straight who pisses on clothing for any reason. Why don't you step outside the "gay" thing and just look and the people. It sounds like you have picked some "real winners" for friends.

Answer 5

It's not about their sexuality, it's about their personality. I, personally, would not urinate on an ex's clothing just because I'm gay. I have a friend that has burned their ex's belongings, and she is straight. I think you are stereotyping a little too much.

Answer 6

I think your question embraces homophobia and ingnorance. Generalizing all members of a group is just not good thinking...now that I've said that...I think it might seem this way to you because of your personal experiences. My observation is that because it takes longer to find a meaningful, same-sex relationship, and once you do, you have the added social pressures to make it work...you wind up investing more of your emotional self. Once it's over, the loss seems greater than the "average" hetero relationship

Not very scientific, I know...but that's my opinion. (and I've broken up with both sexes!)

Answer 7

Not everyone who is gay does this.There are a lot of heterosexual couples who break up the same way.When my dad and mom got divorced they had a huge custody fight over me and my mom destroyed all my dads things and my dad beat up my moms new boyfriend.You see?Even heterosexuals have some pretty messy break ups.

Answer 8

Do you seriously think only gay people do this? If so, I feel so sorry for your lack of knowledge. Maybe you should do a lot more research and come back here sometime next year after you've done your research.

And please, review it atleast 20 times.

(AFTER YOUR COMMENT)

That's why I told you to research more, coz you know less...can't you comprehend that simply little thingy?

I say: "Go0o0o0o0oo TRIP! Nice back-up there!!!"

Answer 9

I think the word gay could have been deleted from this question. Everyone gets upset during a breakup!!!!!

Answer 10

So do straight people.

You should see my sister and her boyfriend fight.

It a veritable cornucopia of over dramatized emotions.