2006-06-17 09:33:44 · 14 answers · asked by shay-shay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to him and find out why he is talking to her. You are his wife and you have every right in the world to know why and for what purpose your hubby was talking to his ex. It might just be nothing, but either way you have the right to know.
2006-06-17 09:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well usually when this happens it is not a good thing. yes there are the selected few that are innocent but slim to none. When guys "feel" they need to talk to another girl they are questioning their own relationship. I would talk ot him and tell him you are mnot comfortable with this and feel that he is disrespecting you. If he contiunes to talk to her behind your back I would do some serious calling to her and see what is up. Also sometimes you need to get sneaky. Investigate before you confront him
2006-06-17 09:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to make sure that it is nothing but a strict friendship between him and her. My boyfriend still speaks to his exgirlfriends but nothing but a "hi" or so, and he reassures to me that he loves me very much and that I have absolutely nothing to worry about. Speak to your husband and tell him that it slightly bothers you that he is speaking to the ex, and I'm very sure he will understand if he loves you like he says he does. But don't be controlling and tell him to stop speaking to her. I also speak to some of my old exboyfriends too, and it doesn't bother my boyfriend because I always reassure to him that we are nothing but friends. Hope this helps.
2006-06-17 09:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't get mad. but i would let him know how i feel and want to know whats going on. ask him how would he feel if u was talking to yr ex behind his back. if there is no kids involved he shouldn't be talking to her. but in the mean time keep both eyes open.
2006-06-17 09:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate_tits42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you know he's been talking to her and ask him what it's about. I'd also ask him how he'd feel if I were talking to an old boyfriend and kept him in the dark about it.
2006-06-24 08:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out what is going on from his point of view. If this makes you feel uncomfortable (wouldn't blame you, really), please be honest about it to him.
If that doesn't work out, knock his a$$ out and have him understand that what you were serious.
Good luck!
2006-06-17 09:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by Suey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel if that was my hubby he would have nothing where the sun don't shin but I would talk to him and see if we can work things out then i will take him to the ER
2006-06-17 09:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out why hes talking to her but that doesnt sound good
2006-06-17 09:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him why he is talking to his ex....maybe there is a reason or maybe not but u should confront him about it....communtication is the key
2006-06-17 09:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by hotchick_85_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should talk to him about it and you shouldn't worry because he probably just would like to be friends with her.
2006-06-17 09:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋