Ok me and my friend keep fighting. Recently I feel that she has become closer to another friend in our group and though she loves me, I feel that I maybe not getting as much attention. It could be because my mom n bro have insulted her, though we are still friends so that should say something abt her friendship with me. However I feel at times left out.. and feel that if given a choice she would rather spend time with this other friend than me. I think about this and when it does happen I go mad and that ruins our relationship further. Its hard to imagine that you might not be a besfriend to your bestfriend and that she might not enjoy as much with you. My friend gets mad and tells me stop assuming but I cant help feel the change. What should I do?
2006-06-17 09:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by mpatheria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People always have some kind of situation like this. Well I don't understand why your mother and brother would insult her in any way, but that is something that a best friend would not want to here from their best friend's family. If it hurts you that you feel as if your best friend is not considering you their best friend anymore, speak to them and tell them the complete truth. Hang around other friends too, and try to get close to them also. As time goes by people change, but you can't make another person feel the way you do.
2006-06-17 09:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time changes and people changes. Let her go and meanwhile, go find some new friends for yourself. Your life shouldn't revolve around one person. Why are you so insecure when she wants to do other things that doesn't involve you? You're not a loser. Get out there and live!!!!!
2006-06-17 09:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, it seems a hopeless relationship for both of you so just dump her and stay as good friends or bad friends (according to preference) and be over and done with it.
2006-06-17 09:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend she wouldn't make u mad. i think u love her and u is being very jealous. talk to her and let her know how u feel. if this continues let her go and fine another friend . good luck
2006-06-17 09:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate_tits42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone...your possiveness will run her off..Give her space, if she really is YOUR bestfriend, she will remain that way.
2006-06-17 09:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you're not dating this friend? If not, back off...she isn't solely yours.
2006-06-17 09:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by B is for Brutus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋