When I have sex, I try to hold out as long as I can for her sake. Usually this means an hour to an hour and a half. Is that too long? Too short? What is a good amount of time for you? Also I like to toss her around in lots of different positions as well (especially doggystyle) Do girls like this as well?
2006-06-17 08:55:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well I always heard that multiple O's are great so I strive for around 3. In 90 min. she can do 4 or so. But it sounds like 1 is satisfactory to some of you ladies.
2006-06-17 09:04:04 · update #1
90 minutes is kinda long. Hold out long enough for her to get hers, and then finish.
2006-06-17 08:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Margaret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that sounds way too long, and way too energetic!
If you like the person you are with and fancy them then you don't have to try all these things or make it a requirement to enjoy it.
Quite literally it's attraction to that person not technique that score points in the bedroom, for me and for most girls.
Far from it, I have had some of the worst sex where we have been "experimental" and some of the best when I am kind of half asleep (not literally) in the morning.
Unless you are a nymphomaniac 90 mins is too long for the average girl. I would seriously lose interest before 30 mins, it's true! 15-20 mins is the perfect time for me, cos including foreplay you can make that last longer. Why would anyone want to do it for that long?
Whatever you do if it's for longer than 10mins use lubricant or it will be a nightmare for her because of dryness which takes all pleasure away!
2006-06-17 09:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Zinc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sexy, 90 minutes if you really last that long is to long for a woman...Usually 45minutes to an hour is fine...And the doggystyle more women HATE this...One, your not as close to your partner and your partner is unable to touch you and see your face and how are you going to kiss each other???Frankly,your doggystyle feels uncomfortable and it hurt somewhat and they guy is totally in control...In good sex you both need to be in control to have a pleaseing expience...So be cool,ask your parnter if she likes doggstyle before performing it...
Clowmy
2006-06-17 09:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not getting the job done in 20 minutes or so, what makes you think subjecting her to 90 minutes is going to do the trick? If she's getting there several times it's fine. Multiple positions? It depends on what she's in the mood for. You're on the right track in thinking about her - but go even further and try to learn what she wants by asking her directly.
2006-06-17 09:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyedprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't finished in a half hour You're not doing it right and she will never reach the big O. You're just making it sore so she won't want it the next night.
The second question "Do girls like this...?" I think you should ask the girl you claim to be doing.
My guess is she doesn't because she's not getting off.
2006-06-17 09:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not long enough. Try an all nighter. Girls like to be on top, makes them feel more in control and you know we control the relationship anyway....may as well control in bed, too!
2006-06-17 09:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane ? 90 minutes is NOT too long. The more variety, the better.
2006-06-17 08:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by sioux m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
90 minutes would leave me sore.20-30 mins would be good
2006-06-17 09:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by BellaDonna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and let go when you want to. You can do other things to get her off. Just pay attention to her body's response. Then go from there. Girls don't always need to have you penetrate them to get off. There are many things you can do using your tongue, fingers etc.
2006-06-17 09:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by kittygopostal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about other girls but an 30 mins suits me tops and about doggy style no comment
2006-06-17 09:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by icychicmillenium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋