my gf is Mexican and we are in a relationship, but, is it considdered "un-holey" or something? i'm just worried that if i go to Mexico with her it will cause some kinda upset
2006-06-17 08:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by Minxie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
then don't go
2006-06-17 08:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is her family super Catholic or something? I know that a lot of Hispanic families are that way (like mine), but if her family already knows that she's a lesbian, then I really don't see the problem. If you're the first gf that she's brought to them, then it might be a little awkward at first, but unless you speak Spanish, I'm sure that you'll be unaware of them talking about you, and they'll eventually ease into the idea, that's what happened with my cousin!
2006-06-17 08:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by PupEluv4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be sure of that, lesbianism is not very common in Mexico, they exist lesbians in Mexico, but people there still in a taboo, we still thinking that all men and women need to form a family with kids and all that stuff. So if you think you will feel uncomfortable just don't go.
2006-06-17 08:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by nemodelmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly i wouldnt ever let religion or ridiculous "beliefs" (religious hatred and racism i call it...) get in the way of your happiness. If her family cant take you as you are, then they are racist, and you should make them aware of this... I would go with it, your happiness is worth everything-and; black, white, gay, or whatever... you should be accepted for being you! As long as your gf is happy with you, and you are happy with her-nothing else matters! Good luck
xx
2006-06-17 08:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upset with who? Her parents? Who cares? IF you love her, you will go to the ends of the earth for her, and she you.
Un holy? Don't get me started...gr...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqwQQNqsxH_i3jknIY6oAl_sy6IX?qid=20060617121239AAqRqZf
I hate people who judge, look at this holy idiot, I think he has a few holes in his head..lol... don't sweat it.
take care..
2006-06-17 08:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by blah blah blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's totally not acceptable....
what you can do is say she's bringing her best friend (you know, for safety reasons) and chances are you two can stay in the same room!
; )
2006-06-17 08:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't upset me.
2006-06-17 08:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the olden times, they used to hang people for that...
2006-06-17 08:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Cereal Killer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question does not make sense. You need to elaborate
2006-06-17 08:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by bcsnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever been burned at the stake before?....
2006-06-17 08:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once yous are happy thats all that matters
2006-06-17 10:44:55 · answer #11 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋