2006-06-17 08:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
when u have enough money to support the kid
2006-06-17 08:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of different factors. no one really knows until the time comes, and some are, and some really aren't. you have to have the money to be able to support the kid with everything they will need, you have to be emotionally ready considering it is a very draining job, though worth while. you have to have the time for a kid because they become number one in your life. you have to be willing to make the effort to teach them and help them grow and learn new things. you have to make sure you can give them the love and support they need every single day instead of dumping them on someone else all the time. and that's not everything. it's a really hard and exhausting job, especially the first couple of years. and when they say "terrible twos", they don't really ever outgrow that, it goes on even through the teenager years. I've been helping my sister raise her son, and it's not easy. it's stressfull as hell, though I love him to death. and he's only 27 months.
2006-06-17 08:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by kill_jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to have a "Kid" is to have a baby first unless you're adopting. Or literally buy a goat. A CHILD is a great responsibility. People usually have selfish reasons for having children, to get attention, to tie a lover to them, or even loneliness. If you and your husband are at a place in life that you can provide for the child emotionally and physically go for it, otherwise go for the goat.
2006-06-17 08:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you can provide shelter , food , education, clothing and opportunities for the baby without going on welfare or living with your parents. When you know that you will be patient and love the baby more than yourself and are willing to put the kids needs ahead of your own...for the next 19 years.
2006-06-17 08:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gunna go with michelle.When u have enough money and room for 1 and the time for 1
2006-06-17 08:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by forumrider93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your old enough to take care of yourself and someone else with no help from anyone (not even the childs father if necessary). You never know whats going to happen in life so just dont count on help from anyone.
2006-06-17 08:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by meredith o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get done with all your schooling college have a job and be married ...
2006-06-17 08:15:56 · answer #7 · answered by "Olivia Loves Raoul" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know when you're ready.. just try to keep up w/ the lil bugger
2006-06-17 08:13:32 · answer #8 · answered by Shrimpkiss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the waters break
2006-06-17 08:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by hotclaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN EVER U FEEL LIKE IT!!!!
2006-06-17 08:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by sk8ers_rock94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋