my ex man..is goin out with a friend of mind....but she doesnt know about me..she doesnt have a clue. should i tell her that her man...was mine first..or she i keep it to myself. he is still flirting with me..but she doesnt have a clue that we even know eachother. i told him never to let her know, that he even knows me..because it will ruin mine and her friendship.
2006-06-17 08:03:40 · 11 answers · asked by BUTTERFLY 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be honest with her. She will probably find out anyways. Things always have a way of slipping out or she will eventually notice the way the two of you are when you are around together. Think of it this way. Ask yourself this question, if it was reversed, what would you want? Would you rather know? And why?
2006-06-17 08:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by cricketcanada38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything...plus she has your left over..and that ex is no good..what he is doing to her ,he will do it to you too. so forget about that looser....and about telling the poor girl anything , i say poor because she has a looser as a boyfriend ...just stay away from them ...because you ex..seems ..like he wants to have the cake and it eat too..by trying to flirt with you. Say goodbye to your ex and good riddance..
2006-06-17 15:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by gengen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her. Don't lose a friendship over a guy. That's the worst thing you could ever do.
2006-06-17 15:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her because sooner of later is would come out and she would surely get mad at you for not telling her before.
when you tell her make it seem as though its no big deal just like a just to let you know thing.
2006-06-17 15:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself until she asks, then tell her that you were afraid to tell her before. Best wishes
2006-06-17 15:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not a concern then don't worry about it. If she asks then tell her, how would you feel if you were in her shoes?
2006-06-17 16:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with what you told him and don't say anything to her either.
2006-06-17 15:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what ever is in your heart. it'll come to you sooner or later.
2006-06-17 15:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Chaka J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a real true friend you will be honest with her
2006-06-17 15:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2006-06-17 15:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Varsity =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋