i love a woman older then me and we are in a relationship...all my friends tell me to get out of it bcoz of the age difference...what should i do?
2006-06-17 07:24:09 · 12 answers · asked by Minxie b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont know why people are so hung up on age its just a number.
So if your happy sod everybody else and just have a bloody good time.
Good luck
2006-06-17 08:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by MoJoJoJo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are truly in love, what does the age difference matter. There might be things to consider such as the possibility, or lack of such, to start a family at one point, but why not just enjoy your love for now and tell your friends to accept your choices just as you accept theirs. I know couples where the woman is up to 10 years older than the man who are very happy together - also after several years. Good luck.
2006-06-17 14:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is more of a sexism than agism thing you are facing. It always seems to be ok for a guy to have a young female partner but not vice versa. Just as you often see a gorgeous girl with a minging guy, how often though do you see a gorgeous guy with a mingin girl. If you are secure and happy in your relationship and there aren't any problems i.e. one of you wanting children, the other not then why not. There will be many more reasons to stay together than to split up I bet. Good luck and lucky you for finding someone so special.
2006-06-17 14:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by crabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,it really depends on how much older she is and whether you connect. I feel that if you are mature enough and can behave towards her as an equal, then age doesn't matter. Its just a number. You must however, consider your aims and goals in life and it may be that as she gets older she may be more willing to settle down and you might not be able to give her that level of commitment. Consider all factors and don't make any rash decisions!
2006-06-17 17:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by clevagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two love each other then stay in the relationship. Go with your heart you are the one how has to deal with the out come. Not your friends. If you split with her can you deal with it? If not then don't. If you can then do it. but don't look back its your life make you own decision and stick with it no matter what. You life and live it to the fullest with no regrets!Good Luck!
2006-06-17 14:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but if she is older than 1 -2 years then yes you better go and find a younger girl... that will not last long and if you do not do anything now you both will hurt very badly... I know so many ppl like this and even they got married and have kids...but...
sorry .... it is not a good idea
2006-06-17 14:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age is just a number so follow your heart and ignore what people say.loving someone is more to it than age.what if someone your age don't make you feel the same as you feel now .
2006-06-17 21:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can happen between two people of any age, the perfect example is anna nicole smith. i mean she must have loved that old, nearly dead millionaire.
2006-06-17 15:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't know for limits.So don't listen to your friends, if your love is true then nothing else matters.I loved guy who was younger than me, some of my friends always criticized me, but I never listened to them.Go on.It is important you to feel good, no your friends.
2006-06-17 14:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find somone you'r own age it's only sex that's keeping you interested,
2006-06-17 14:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋