I'm 14 and, until now, 2 boys asked me if I want to have sex with them. i want to, but don't know if I'm ready. and if i decide to do it, where is the best place & the best position for the first time?
2006-06-17 06:46:51 · 17 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're too young...don't do it just to do it.
2006-06-17 06:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
remember one thing.... all boys want to have sex. I am sure you want to also, but are you ready to take the responsibility if you happen to get pregnant? you may think it cannot happen to you, but it happens everyday. I just saw a question a few minutes ago right here on Yahoo Answers, a girl is 13, her boyfriend is 14, they used a condom, but she is pregnant and not sure what to do and asking advice. That is a really bad situation to be in. You need to make sure that you are ready for that if you are going to have sex. Sex was intended by god for one purpose, so dont think it wont happen. just remember that you can always take back a "no" and make it a "yes" later, but you cannot cange a "yes" into a "no" when you regret what you did!!!
2006-06-17 13:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a virgin, I said that I would know when I was ready when I was financially, mentally and emotionally ready to care for a child...Since that is one of the things that can happen when having sex.
At 14, you are waaay to young to have sex and just because some guy asked you to doesn't mean you have to. That's stupid and you will get a reputation by doing stuff like that.
What I did was when I met a guy and started dating him, I told him upfront I was a virgin and that he wasn't getting none. Some stuck around and other moved on. But I was honest.
2006-06-17 13:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same age as you when it happened you will no that you are ready when it feels right you will get this tingle feeling deep down 7 you will no its time, you shouldn't do it with a person you hardly no though my advice is to do it with a friend so that you will no that this person will always be there for you cuz if you do it with someone you hardly no chances are they will just do a hit it & quit it but this is only for your 1st time after that you can move on to boyfriends & stuff the best place is definitly at a house or something NO CARS or stuff like that for your 1st time & best position is old fashion you on bottom him on top anything else will hurt like hell trust me! i no
2006-06-17 13:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by nae nae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 and u are soo ready to take the responsible?? what if u got preganat?? I think u need to WAIT until u are older enough to handle things .. REMEMBER boys loves sex as toy pleasures they need sex NOT YOU! They start at young age to be ready for that ... if the boys really wants you and respect your virgin .. than to ask u for sex.. its all about sex , not love . SO what makes u think u are ready .. SAVE IT FOR THE MARRIAGE and TRUST ME!
2006-06-17 13:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should wait till it just happens it will happen when it happens. Tell the 2 boys that wanna have sex with you that if they really care for you they will wait till your ready u will know when ur ready though don't worry about the place and position and time cuz it will happen when it happens I worry I abou things that this too but when it happens ur not gonna think abou it its just gonna happen. This message will not stop your worrys those will not stop till it happens. well theres that got anymore problems email me im_plain_hard_to_get_06@ahoo.com or @hotmail.com if I don't get a hold of you with in 2 days email shanice smoke at tough_Hottie49242@yahoo.com.
2006-06-17 13:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by lambofgod4everz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is too young... Wait until you're older. And it sounds like those 2 dudes are idiots. Wait for the right person to come along.
2006-06-17 13:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by *liz* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you have to ask a whole bunch of strangers what you should do, then you aren't ready. Sorry, but maybe you should figure it out first before you do something you might regret later.
2006-06-17 13:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by lojack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r only ready when u r also ready to handle any sexually transmitted diseases you may get or maybe if you r ready to become pregnant and take care of a child because there is NO
100% way to keep those things from happening to you PLEASE wait until you are older and are able to handle any thing that is thrown your way because you never know what might happen any thing is possible
2006-06-17 13:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know me, but please trust me on this one - DON'T have intercourse for a few more years. You can get pregnant and the boys won't have to worry about it - YOU will and it will ruin your life. Plus girls get called crappy names and can't find decent friends or boyfriends when they hear that you're the 14 year old who let the boys get her. Wait a few years and make sure he uses a Trojan condom.
2006-06-17 13:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet, wait until you are married. Are you ready to handle the responibility if you would become pregnant. You are to young to be having sex, and they are immature. You will regret it if you do do it.
2006-06-17 13:51:51 · answer #11 · answered by klute_0713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋