My girlfriend, soon to be my live in. Has been married 5 times Is it normal for a woman to kept picture's of all her ex's, her first husband was 29 years ago and her last husband was 11/2 years ago. If this is normal, why?
2006-06-17 06:23:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe her head is in the past and you are not at all intresting, so she looks back all the time.
2006-06-17 06:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal for some.
You need to consider though... A woman that's been married 5 times is going to have a LOT of baggage. Also, it might tell you something about your relationship future with her. Why did these past relationships fail? How long have you been with this woman?
If it's been less than a year then you're nots to be moving in with her.
2006-06-17 06:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Talamascaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its different from person to person. i moved in with my bf about 4 years ago. he was looking from something thru some boxes i still hadnt packed up and found pictures of my ex i had forgotten i had. it didnt bother him that i had the pictures it bothered him that i didnt tell him about it. but after i explained to him i just forgot they were there, we were cool again. But then again if they were married she might still have some feelings for them and is not ready to give them up. If i was u i would be more worried that she's been married 5 times. I would take it slow with this one!
2006-06-17 06:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by emc251978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's not normal unless she had kids with them she might be keeping those pictures for her children to have memories but other than that it's not okay for her to keep pictures that's the past leave it behind already yo need t speak up do it for you so that she can respect the way you feel.
2006-06-17 06:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have photos of ANY ex-gf's or wives? What about photos from school? Proms? Dances? Old friends?
Photos are photos. They are memories. Does she openly display this photos in her home presently or are they put up in photos albums? Let her have her memories and you enjoy yours.
PS: I would be more concerned by the fact that she has been married FIVE times than what photos she has.
2006-06-17 06:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the picture issue...
It's not normal for people to marry 5 times.
She obviously has problems with commitment or is committed to living her life as a reject.
I'd lay odds she has you figured for number 6...
"Oh, no, not me.... she loves me!"
Yea, right. Wake up and smell the coffee...
2006-06-17 06:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by ptm8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women tend to keep pictures for memories. We are a lot more attached memorabilia type stuff of a relationship ex: b-day cards, pics... I wouldn't say its something to worry about....
But if you plan on settling down with her, make sure you get a pre-nup signed!!!! :-)
2006-06-17 06:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by PROMISCUOUS SEDUCTION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal to have pictures of them as long as she doesn't have them hangng up around the house. They were a part of her life.
2006-06-17 06:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DID SHE HAVE ANY CHILDREN BY ANY OF HER HUSBANDS AND IF SO THE PICTURES ARE FOR THEM TO KNOW WHAT THEY LOOKED LIKE
2006-06-17 06:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it freaks you out ask her! You should definitly deal with it before she moves in! five times is a whole lot! (maybe it's not them...)
2006-06-17 06:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by spiffytwirler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋