i play with my small cousin (a girl) most most of the time but now i think im big to play how can i tell her? if i tell her normally she cries and goes away
2006-06-17 06:21:28 · 11 answers · asked by Maral 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Royalty
straightup
2006-06-17 06:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with playing with your little cousin. She looks up to you and thinks you are cool that is why she wants to play with you in the first place. You play with her now and she will remember it when she is older and maybe you will be better friends then. If you really feel you do not want to play with her like you used to then try to cut down on the time with her and think of an alternative like bring her out to get ice cream or the park, anything you feel comfortable with and can enjoy too. This way you can feel your age and she still gets to spend time with you. this is a win win.
2006-06-18 01:51:53 · answer #2 · answered by hdot21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her mama, and yours, for advice. I am sure that you can find things together, and maybe her mama, your auntie, will help you distract her so you can go play more big guy activities. She loves you, you are a good cousin to consider all of these options. You are becoming a fine man.
2006-06-17 13:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you play with her nothing is wrong in it dear,i don't understand why are you worried?Still if you don't want to play with her start remaining busy and give her the excuse that you have one or the other work.
2006-06-17 13:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Pau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break her heart. She obviously adores you. Accept her as a future best friend and remember, she will be the one to introduce you to all her beautiful friends when you are both older.
2006-06-17 13:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to play something more 'grown up' w/out telling her you dont want to play, shell get bored and leave without crying
2006-06-17 13:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by 0110010100 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you have a disease like athletes foot
2006-06-24 01:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and then let her cry she will stop sooner or later
2006-06-17 14:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by monique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love overcomes all... even inbreeding.
2006-06-17 13:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by cherodman4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just play with her!don't break her heart she adores you!
2006-06-17 13:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by cutegal3548 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋