I always had a dispute with my younger sister , I am always there for her help but she never.I understand her in the best possible way but she not in dreams even.My mother always favours her , she also remain rude and angry with me. Its very difficult for me to survive in this house .How should i manage it?
2006-06-17 06:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by Pau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is just one small part of your life.
Now, my brothers live in different cities.
One parent has died.
Let bad times past and look forward to the good times.
You are so young and sweet. Enjoy it all. Don't let anything bad get in the way of your happiness. It can be under your control!
2006-06-17 06:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, my religion says, all the prophets of my religion say that, when u commit suicide, you will be born again..
its like killing the principal of your college, another one will be instated immediately..
so also, if you commit suicide, you will be born again, and in the next life again ,you will have to face the same problem..
weakness in not the way out....
Talk to your parents about how u feel, almost everyone feels the way you do at some point in their life..and people those who are suffering belive that their problem is permanent..and that its a unique problem...its so not true..
may be you can talk to your relatives..or a councellor..
2006-06-17 10:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by raj_6c1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and hang on until your old enough to move out. Maybe you can live with another relative. If that is not an option then just do your best to stay out of the line sight of your conflicts. That's what I did then moved out the day I turned 18. Suicide is NOT an option. You owe it to yourself to overcome :0)
2006-06-17 06:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by Krazy In Kentucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try being quiet for a change. Stay out of everyones way. Don't speak until spoken to. Try to be humble. Even when people start asking you what's wrong, just talk quietly and use as few words as possible.
2006-06-17 06:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to wal-mart, go to the sports section, grab a gun, and ask the people working where you can find the anti-depressants, if you want a funny answer, if not, talk to your sister, ask her why she is so rude, and just have sister-sister talk, my friends have been in very similar situations, and this advice usually works. When it doesn't, they take this matter up with their mother.
2006-06-17 06:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by dragon_phoenix_unicorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand up for yourself. Just because you are not loved as much doesn't mean life sucks. Embrace hatred and make it work for you.
I am not a doctor and it might be a good idea to call your local toll-free crisis line.
There is not a family out there that doesn't have problems. My childhood sucked beans but i promise you will have your day to shine.
2006-06-17 06:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, do NOT commit suicide, that is the worst thing that you can do. Try to talk to your mom and ask her if there is anyway that you can do something that would please her, and if she bites your head off for it, be calm and don't explode back at her, it says in the Bible, to "pour heaping coals on their head..." in other words be nice and loving even if they aren't to you.
Do you have a father? if you do i would suggest that you try to spend some time with him, maybe a trip to the movies or something ( if you have a father and he is approachable) spend time with him.
About your sister, i argue with mine all the time, mostly i try to stay out of her way, but be nice to your sister, believe me, she will notice, pour heaping coals on her head too, she will notice if you don't argue back but if you're calm and collected and nice.
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2006-06-17 06:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by ~*.:Kyla:.*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a little sister too and I know the feeling. But there is no way you should take your own life over your sister. Try talking to your mom about how you feel, maybe she doesn't realize how you feel.
2006-06-17 06:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont I repeat dont kill yourself it is not worth losing your life over. God said you would have to go threw trial and tribulation. It will get better pray about it and keep your head up. Try to move with a family member if you just cant take it. But dont take ya life whatever you do.
2006-06-17 09:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dntjudgeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beloved, you should move out. If this is not possible, just except things the way they are for now and start putting together a plan to get out there on your own. All you need is you.
um-kay love.
2006-06-17 06:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋