I know that I need to move on and find someone else, but why is it so scary to move on and be alone. I have never been single and I am looking forward to it, but very scared of being ALONE!!!
2006-06-17 05:55:29 · 16 answers · asked by swannstl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
b/c u were once content/comfortable with ur situation and u don't like change. but that's part of life, if u don't take that chance then u will never know the outcome. plus ur heartbroken and it scares u b/c u don't want to go through it again, and u're thinking 2 urself is this going to happen again?! U said u've never been single, there's a first time for everything. word of advice --- quit looking for someone (enjoy time to urself/w/friends), let that someone find u. cause sometimes if ur not looking 4 love its looking for u. and don't be so negative @ moving on. good luck
2006-06-17 06:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by kj 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but I wish you are the luck in the world. I was married for 34 years when my husand left me for my friend. I was totally shocked. But let me tell you now, I have never been as happy as I am at this time in my life. I don't have to worry about anyone telling me what to do, when to do it, or how to do it. Yes it is scary but give it a fer months or so and you will be amazed at how good your life is.
2006-06-17 06:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 09:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the devil we know is often less scary than the devil you don't know. You just need a little confidence and be ok with things being different from what you're used to.Good luck!!
2006-06-17 06:06:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being alone is good, then you can know who you are, what interests you, what you like to do to have fun, etc. lot of times when we are with someone, we become like that other person and start to develop their interests. discover who you are first, its exciting,not scary. just have fun!!
2006-06-17 06:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people hate change, and sometimes it can be very hard. You must move on with your life. I wish you the best. You can do it.
2006-06-17 09:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is scary to face the unknown! It will take time, just be strong and confident that you will be able to do it..
2006-06-17 06:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are scared of being hurt again or you don't think you can be happy with anyone else.
2006-06-17 05:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by pinkeydots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people hate unknown territory because they don't know if they like it or not. thats why people have their comfort zones and stay in them.
Do not fear the future, most move on to better things.
2006-06-17 05:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only be young for so long.
Put the past where it belongs and have fun.
Theree is really nothing to be afraid of.
2006-06-17 05:57:28 · answer #10 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋