2006-06-17 05:17:53 · 18 answers · asked by Saeed K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to be the person you used to be when you just started dating her and she was still interested. Did you change? THink about it, and see if you can fix it
2006-06-17 05:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First find out what the"problem" is. If there is room for discussion then talk it through.
If not remember that all relationships are about growing and moving on. Especially, if there was no talk of marrage or any other kind of commitment - then let it go.
It will hurt like heck for awhile, but take what you have learned from the relationship and be grateful for the experience and leave behind any bitterness. Take some time for yourself to muttle over and heal.
And just be prepared for the next and new relationship.
2006-06-17 12:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sa'Sat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her can you talk to her. Then the day before write down everything you want to say(postive and negative, and be realistic not cheesy and mushy be serious about your feelings and short term goals for your relationship). That way you're not all emotional and all your thoughts are on paper. Then ask her to take the paper and think about it(give her at least a week or more). In that time period ask her to wrtie her feelings and conditions for you , so the next time you meet or talk, you can discuss the conclusion. So be prepared for whatever answer she gives you. It may not be the one you want to hear,but just know that you tried. Relationships are great,but they are tough. Sometimes we learn all we can from one individual and it's time to move on. So either way , I wish you the best and G'luck.
2006-06-17 12:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by mieldor76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, talk with her about what problems are causing the relationship to fall apart. You need to discuss the problems to try to resolve them. If you don't, then the relationship will end right there. You definitely need to figure that out. #1 priority before anything else. #2, what makes you think she is going to break up with you? So try and find out why she is having problems with the relationship and try to fix them.
2006-06-17 12:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by wiegel81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of this, and I'm not trying to be mean to you or her. Why would you want to be with someone that does not want to be with you? This is a question that should give you the answer.
2006-06-17 12:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know the reasons then u can decide,if she wants to break up with u bcz of ur problems,try to solve them,but maybe its her foult,girls are so emotional and sensitive,just try to make her feel that u love her
2006-06-17 12:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want you anymore you don't want to force anything because it would be like chewing nails. Just suck it up and drive on SOLDIER. Good Luck Man.
2006-06-17 12:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to deal with it. If she wants out, then it's too late. Just accept it and move on and learn from your experiences.
2006-06-17 12:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by forbidden_planet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if someone wants to break up with you there is nothing to do. You have to let her go.
2006-06-17 12:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by elijahjaye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her why? Did you do something wrong!maybe find another gf good luck
2006-06-17 12:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by Hyon H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋