So theres this girl that i had been dating for quite a while, around 8 or 9 months...I really really cared about her and we were so close, then one day we broke up because we were going through hard times and not getting along as well. We both decided to "take a break" from one another...a couple of weeks went by and i had found out that she had gotten a new boyfriend, I was so upset because i still loved her and cared for her(i think she did this to make me jealous, they broke up shortly).after that i end up not talking to her for about 3 or 4 months. just recently ive started talking to her again and I think i wanna be with her again...every time i talk to her old memories pop into my head again. The other nite we talked for hours and she told me everything that has happened to her lately and ect. she told me she has thought about me everyday since we broke up... basicly i just wanna kno if she has feelings for me still and ever wants to be back together basicly...what should I do?
2006-06-17 04:50:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why not just ask her. tell her your feelings and see what happens from there. Sometimes time will tell. Trust me, I going though it right now.
2006-06-17 04:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be nice to her when she calls, and don't go rushing back to her. if you do she will think you are weak. you can send her a birthday card or Christmas card but if she wants to patch things up she has to prove to you that she is willing to stay on board. if a person bails out on you when there is trouble that is not a true partner. you have to be able to trust someone, you can tell her that too if you want. but it takes time and she needs to build her credibility back up with you in order for you to jump back in with both feel. love is a two way street, so i'm sure you were not perfect either. so live and learn. remember the things you said and did wrong and let her do the same. if it is meant to be you two will make it work....love bears all things, so look deep inside and really think, could I be with this person for the rest of my life or are we just young and have a youthful crush....sometimes it takes a few good relationships to figure out how to love and be in love. not everyone gets it right the first time around.
Good Luck:)
2006-06-17 05:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her telling you that she's been thinking about you everyday since you broke up is her way of telling you that she'd like to get back together with you. I think she was just testing the waters to see if you felt the same. I say tell her how you feel, and try and make it work again.
2006-06-17 04:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by aloha_lea413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u ask her,not directly tho.Mayb she made a mistake.Maybe she was confused.Give both of ya'll a chance
2006-06-17 04:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by pop_princess0520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋