My husband and I live with another couple as roommates. My friend's husband is a complete dog; he cheats on her, flirts with other woman obvousily in front of her, girls call him on his cell, has a picture of an ex girlfriend right after they just had sex under the bathroom sink (his wife already knows about it!) and comes home late with all sorts of excuses. My friend is suffering from low self-esteem and she won't do anything but nag him with what he's doing. My husband and I have lost respect for the both of them especially since we have talked to her many and many times about it. Now, we have given up talking to her because she doesn't want to hear it. My friend's husband has flirted with me several times (smiling and talking with me), and I didn't notice he was really flirting with me until I saw what kind of guy he was. I just thought he was just a friendly guy. Wrong! He winks at me when no one is looking! Guys, is this guy really trying to flirt with me??
2006-06-17 04:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Lily♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just found out that when they separated last year for 6 months; he was already sleeping with both of his wife's sisters on the first day she left packing!
2006-06-17 04:51:09 · update #1
Last night, he told my husband that he told the girls he was seeing that he didn't want to be with them anymore; and that he was thinking about becoming a better husband. Last night, he winked at me when we were outside behind my husband's back!
2006-06-17 04:52:40 · update #2
I can tell you this from experince I have afriend that is the exact same way, (he is my husbands best friend) not mine anyway he has cheated on his wife several times and she only knows of one becuase she belives all his lies. So therefore this beautifil that a 7 year old daughter is sleeping with this man who has already slept with half the town. If i were you I would catch him at his own game. Play back with him, let him think that your on his side and not the girlfriends side, set up recorders, video tape anything possible, when you have evendience that he trying to when you to sleep with him show her and your husband then they will beileve you. My husband friend has tried to sleep with me, he has winked also, if were hanging out and every one is outside and i come in to go to the bathroom are whatever he follow me inside and theni feel trapped, he wants hugs and kisses all the time from me, but see i have confronted my husband about this and of course he want o hear know wrong about his best friend, so one day real soon my husband is gonna be sorry becuase i gave him the chance to correctr this problem but he just ignores me like i would actually lie about this, why would I??? My husband knows iam not jealous at all becuase he is garbage and if that is what my husnband wants then i say go for it, and in the long run we will all suffer becuase i am going to catch him in the deed and will i do i will explotie him to know end. And then as far my husband goes i will let him go to because if his best friends screws around that much and is doing it right under my husband nose then no telling what either of them are up to. As far as the other wife ,i have chose to tell her nothing becuase she only believes him, but she will be sorry, he has even called me on my cell phone knowing that my husband is not around and asked me what i was doing, if i wanted to meet somewhere, all kinds of crazy ****. He has shown up at the grocery store when i am there, at the kids school, which now is where he sends his daughter but still come on, but i have learend this, i dont talk bad about him tyo my husband, or his wife or anyone i just deal with it, becuase when i let ball its gonna be real big, and not just there marriage is gonna be jeopordized but mine to, becuase i have no reason to trust my husband if he hangs with trash like that, but once my husabnd sees the video of his friend tring to come to me and kissing me then he might wake but by then it will be to late for me to stay around with kids becuase they are both gonna be caught, and all i wanted is for my husband to beleiev to me and not him, but he doesnt so they only way for him to believe it is to see it and hear it. When i file for divorce i will use this video for my case to prove to the judge that his friends are trash and the premicous life he lives i know that my husband acceppts this life if his friends but my kids are not aloud around that type of man, or family for that matter and maybe when its all sadi and done 2 familys will be destroyed did it have to work out like that yeah to me it does becuase i have 2 boys myself 11 and 7 i DO NOT want them growing up like that at all. NO way they will have respect for women and they wives espically because i am arund to say whats right and wrong. I understand the whole flirting thing becuase i am in a realtionship the same as we speak if you have any other questions please email at cqueen742003@yahoo.com. I would love to talk more about this. DO NOT LET YOUR Guard down, be smarter than him and one step ahead of him, make sure the people you love and care about know about his behavior that way it does not look like your intrested in him in that way... I wish you the best if you wanna talk email i will be on allday
2006-06-17 04:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl new orleans 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is definitely flirting with you, and if I were you, I would not be alone in the house, with him in the house, and your husand is gone. He will come on to you in a big way, and then try to make it sound like you came on to him when you say something about it. He's a sleeze, and you and your husband need to move. As for your friend, she will have to help herself....Good Luck!
2006-06-17 04:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not trying to flirt with you...HE IS. You stated he's a dog!
Why dont you and your husband move out? This is no place for either of you to be living. Not if you want your marriage to last.
2006-06-17 04:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES HE IS FLIRTING WITH YOU.
See if you can move out to a different place and find a decent couple that you won't have this type of problem with.
I think it's horrible what that guy is doing to his woman and to you.
What a low life he is!
MOVEOUT AND LET THEM SORT IT OUT BEFORE IT GETS MORE TOXIC.
2006-06-17 04:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who know the guys better,I should admit that he do flirts with you.dont trust him and try only be with your husband.
2006-06-17 04:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by Saeed K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this idit is flirting with you it sound like you need to kick this guy out of the house and leave his wife there and let her file for divorce and tell this guy to hit the street
2006-06-17 05:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll chase anything in a skirt and you're no exception. Time to pack up and move out.
2006-06-17 04:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for them to move out!
And, yes...he's flirting, sounds like.
2006-06-17 04:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its flirting and time for him and the wife to go somewhere else
2006-06-17 04:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by paki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is and he is testing your friendship.hope you pass.friends,good friends are hard to find.
2006-06-17 04:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋