What will you do: If you have a huge crush (infatuation would be kinda better) on a guy who is 7-8 yrs older to you & you dont no who he/she is, but you see him/her everyday & cant stop thinking about him/her ?????
2006-06-17 02:08:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all if the guy is 7-8 years older than you (you are 13 right?) that would just be a problem. Second...you have no clue about his history or life story. You dont know the real him! He could have a girlfriend...be married...and is obviously just to freakin old for you. All of these things may be reasons why HE has never approached you! Please honey...u are 13. Are you not thinking about other things? Ok let me give you some GOOD advice...he is 21...he is thinking about sex, all the time, you are 13....very bad right there. Next....hopefully he is not even interested in little girls cause that would just be gross. And just think about this next time you see this complete stranger...."Hmm...I have no idea who this guy is, he could be a rapist, woman (girl) beater, flat out jerk, married, have a girlfriend, or just be a plain old loser." Hopefully this will stop you in your tracks.
2006-06-17 02:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to find out if this person is already in a relationship, such as married! If not, then talk to the person. You will never know if it will go anywhere unless you talk to the person. The age thing should not really matter as long as you are a mature adult and not an underage teenager who is having an infatuation over an older person. In that case, you may be lacking something from a parent at home and the person your are infatuated with is filling the need you may have.
Another thing about the age thing...my parents were 30 years apart in age and their marriage was great. The age difference went unnoticed by my sister and I. Don't get caught up in age!
Good luck to you.
2006-06-17 02:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU ARE VERY YOUNG
you dont even admit --- male or female attraction ha ha
at 13 --- a 20 year old is far to old and needs different things
at 50 ----- 8 years difference means nothing
do not have sex --- because you are young but matured in body --- and are desired by older boys
iff they are decent boys
they will not take advantage
stay with friends of your age group untill your mind is equal with your body growth
always remember
in mature life
most men still desire to marry a virgin woman
not an experienced sex partner
your decide --- your life
but be carefull and sure please
yours
M.M.
2006-06-17 02:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by medicine man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're thinking of nothing but how he looks.if you really can't get over how attracted you are to him just go ask if he gotta girl. if no then ask him on a date. if yes then you need to leave that alone.usally when it's all on looks and you don't even know hwo he is it won't work anyway. you'll see someone else a couple moths down the road and start to feel the same way all over again and forget bout this man
2006-06-17 02:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see this person on a daily basis, are they in a position to be approached? Meaning, can you tell if they are married (wearing a wedding band)? I say life is way too short to sit back wondering about things. What's the harm in walking up to him and speaking? Never know where it might lead.
2006-06-17 02:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk up to them. But if he was 7-8years older than you it might be a very bad idea. I would just talk to him in a friendly matter. The progess from there. I wouldn't just come out as a girlfriend type towards him. Just take it slow. But definitely go up to him.
2006-06-17 02:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by betchick_b5ugotme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I remember that happening to me! You'll never forget the face!! I eventually meet all (3) of those infactuations, no kissing. One had a girfriend. The other was wasted and a waster and the third just didn't cut it months on!!
Why don't you ask him for his phone number?
Its a blod and brazen move!! He'll remember you! But i know you won't!! G'luck
2006-06-17 02:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by baroness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't really know him, I would urge you to be careful because he might be involved or married to someone.
If you can, if you are not too shy, why not simply say Hi! to him one day and see how he responds. He might not chat with you at first, but if you say Hi enough to him, he may become curious as to why you are greeting him when he doesn't know you.
Good Luck!
2006-06-17 02:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be brave and talk to this person as long as you both are old enough to make something of this then go for it. my boyfriend is 6 years younger then myself age is only a number you may lose out on someting great if you dont make an attempt.
2006-06-17 02:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by tracy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your move! 7-8 years isnt that big of a difference really
2006-06-17 02:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Paiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋