you have only just broken up, your going to be sad and hurt. it will take a while to get over it depending how long you two were together. soon you will just become angry and then you will be able to move on. dont rush into a new relationship right now, time heals. good luck.
2006-06-17 02:10:49
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answered by vanessaoz 7
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While you may never truly forget him, you can at least make the memories less painful. Here's what I do:
First, I play the saddest music I can find, especially songs about breakups, and have myself a good cry. Then, I gradually phase over to angrier, girl-power, f-you-you-bastard kind of songs; as I listen to these I think of all the things he did wrong, all the lies he told, all the stuff that hurt me and that prompted the breakup. I deliberately work myself up into a sort of righteous wrath, until I eventually reach the point where I decide I'm far better off without him. Often I will write a rant in my diary about what a jerk he is. Then I take my angry energy and go do something productive with it, like cleaning house.
You will still be sad again after this, most likely. But remind yourself of how he did you wrong, and how you are angry, and the anger should overwhelm the sadness enough for you to go on with life. Eating chocolate also helps. Just don't eat too much of it! And going out to party, doing something different from how you usually do it or making some change in your appearance often helps as well.
I hope you feel better soon.
2006-06-17 02:22:10
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answered by hyacinth4peace 2
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Find something that interests you, whatever your hobbies may be focus on that. I would say just find another boyfriend but you never know you could end up falling for this guy and getting hurt again so take it easy and rest assured that eventually you wont even remember the guys name.
2006-06-17 02:10:50
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answered by The Chief 2
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there are many ways to get over it. first, just cry whenevr you feel like crying go on..it hurts more if you disregard the fact that your hurting.. be strong. engage in a new hobby, go out with friends, spend more time with them, have a new hobby and start dating again. don't hope that that guy would come back to you.look forward! move on!goodluck and you can do that.
2006-06-17 02:12:03
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answered by warrior is a child 6
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Its called a rebound... get together with another guy with no intensions of sticking with him.. trust me rebounds helped me forget about some pretty awesome gurlfriends
2006-06-17 02:11:04
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answered by Anonymous
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get a hobby
2006-06-17 02:19:37
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answered by JULIE 7
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move on
2006-06-17 02:10:50
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answered by Anonymous
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