for all cultures: does your culture believe in pre-marital sex? or do abide by the rules or dont give a damn?

Question

or do you try to abide by the rules, and then get tempted to do it and feel bad about it later

Answer 1

In my culture the bride it supposed to be a virgin when she marries the man she loves but in our days nobody seems to care about that anymore, the age when people get married gets older and people can't afford to waste time.
I have a problem understanding why people don't believe in true love anymore, I think having sex with someone should be a proof you love that guy not just an ordinary thing.
You can make love before the marriage if you are sure he is the right guy, you should trust him. By the way, don't expect the guy to be virgin, they just want to have fun and very few believe in marriage and true love. They are upset if their girlfriend doesn't know how to act up in bed but they are also annoyed if she had sex with someone before, they are not sure what they want.
Remember Usher's song '' We want a lady in the street and a freak in the bed''. Just my opinion....

Answer 2

No! If that was the philosophy then none of us would ever date because we 'might' get hurt! 99.9% of all relationships fail (marriage being the exception), it's the experience that's important. There's no problem, and if he likes you then he won't have temptation. He should have no problem waiting for sex either. If you are really worried just talk to him, you should be talking to him about your feelings anyway. He'll tell you what he wants. There are beautiful girls everywhere at all times of day, but he likes you, so why worry about it. I club a lot and go to lots of bars with friends and I've never cheated on a girlfriend. Plus, you can always go with him even if you don't drink, or whatever. Go have fun and live in the present! Just stay honest and talk.

Answer 3

I live in the US so my "culture" doesn't even exist. We are all individuals with different beliefs and different moral background. Alot of the church groups teach abstinence, but those same people are out clubbing every saturday,

I personally think you should test the waters before you take the plunge. No matter what people say, sex is one of the biggest parts of most relationships.So if you can't be sure that you're sexually compatible before you get married, you might be setting yourself up for a liftime of sexual frustration, or a divorce.

Answer 4

The culture I live in: Fundamentalist Christian American .

Premarital sex is frowned on big time, but peope engage in it anyway.

I abide by the rules, they're made for very good reasons.

Answer 5

I am unaware of any culture that believes in pre-marital sex, but they don't enforce their views with banishment or death.