She doesn't act like she even loves me. I think she stays with me because she wants a maid, cook, etc. She hates my children and shows it constantly. I've told her I was leaving before and I've left 2x's. I'm just kinda scared to leave. She is very controlling and I have to ask for money even though I have money coming in. Help!!!
2006-06-17 01:51:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW, she lets me know that when we got married (been together 9yrs married 8) I wore a size 6 now I'm a 9-12. She makes me feel like a pig!
2006-06-17 01:54:47 · update #1
You are such a DORK!!!!!! Get a life you dumb ***!! lol
2006-06-17 01:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Gee, I didn't know you had all this going on... People who's lives are OUT OF CONTROL are ususally the ones who are completely controlling. You've been with her for too long, the damage to your children is probably already done. Also I'd say she has major things from her childhood that causes her to "act" some of the ways that she does. ?? Does she frequently feel left out ?? Does she have to deal with the chlidren on a regular basis ?? (If she's not just as important to you as Everything else than it will show!!) See sometimes negative attention is better than non at all from some people. i.e.picking on your weight, ect. - I don't know... but it sounds like you've both got some issue on your plate to deal with. Get some SOUND COUNSELING (ever considered Dr. Phil?), christian counsel is usually a good place to start.
2006-06-17 10:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by simple_creations2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what, only you have this answer. close your eyes and try to remember every possible moment with her. After this just think about your relationship, its current status, how it is now and how it was long ago, why you got married, what attracted you towards her the most. Trust me, you will get these answers and then you can decide whether she should be given a chance or not? Best of luck! :) :)
2006-06-17 09:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would leave. you say she don't like your kids.if you see that you know the kids do as well.imagine how they feel.so what if you been married before, i know it's heart breaking to you that you still haven't found the right one but wouldn't you rather be alone then to be unhappy? sounds like she don't apricate anything.a man that can cook ,clean, and do all that and still has money comming in to help out with bills and things, ............there's no reason why you can't find a good lady.sounds as if you may be to nice.leave her for something better it's out there .good luck
2006-06-17 09:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by kansasgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok this one is a hard one because you love her and that is the reason you stay after all she has done to you. But the ones who are really suffering here are the kids. They see how you are getting treated and kids are smart they must know how she feels about them. If you can't leave her for yourself then do it for them. They deserve better.
2006-06-17 09:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by crazysexylatina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how you can get pass someone that does not love your children. That above all else is the deciding factor. Should your children grow up unhappy because you are afraid to leave someone that doesnt want you?
2006-06-17 08:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kashmir527 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you shold definately get out of that marriage for the sake of your kids. They don't deserve to be treated badly, and neither do you. The kids see how you are being treated, they see that you are misserable , and they are also misserable. Matter of fact it sounds like your wife is misserable too. Except for the part where she gets all of your money. Yeah dude dump her and do it quickly.
2006-06-17 09:07:29 · answer #7 · answered by cept4kat2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're MARRIED. That means committed till death. Don't leave it, fix it. Start treating her like you love her, and eventually things will change. You both need Jesus to make life work. He helps us love the unloveable.
2006-06-17 08:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take those kids and hit the road what kind of person would put their own kids thru that crap and even yourself their are plenty of help places to help u if u do not make enough money on your own where are your parents and friends she sounds like a real witch to me and i sure would not want that raising my kids good luck
2006-06-17 08:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by bridgettemarie123@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOw come your other question says you are single and having sex with married men. Liar, Liar
2006-06-17 12:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes leave her now! come live with me ! that b is crazy id kiss your *** if you run the household chores and play Mr mom
2006-06-17 09:15:36 · answer #11 · answered by Dotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋