after all this time I've made up my mind and decided to tell my mom that, against her will, I still meet with my girlfriend and what's more that I'm not gonna break up with her! (fo details check my questions) I've been thinking about it for so long and still I'm so nervous about it! I'm afraid that she'll react very badly,just as it was when I told her a few months ago that I'm in this kind of relationship. and now I made this decision by myself to share my life with my gf as long as we can stand each other.
my mom's going to come to my place soon! gooosh! it's eating me alive!
2006-06-17 01:04:36 · 9 answers · asked by bara_no_seido 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm proud of you for taking a stand.And although you're nervous about your mother's reaction,remember that she loves you very much and only wants you to be happy.So you tell her,Lifes not worth living unless you're happy!!
2006-06-17 01:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by T-Bone W 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, best of luck to you! It can be sooo hard to live the life we want, and reconcile it with not doing what our parents want us to do....and I don't care how old you are, or if you live on your own, or what. Take a deep breath and remind yourself (and your mom) that who you love has nothing to do with your mom. And that the fact that you are in a loving, respectful relationship should be a testament to the way you were raised. Good luck!
2006-06-17 13:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Autumn BrighTree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....im not bi- or lesbo or anything like that but you should remember people have 2 go through things like this *everyday* of their lives. im sure they're people in the world that have it worse than you so -do what YOU feel is right.if you get the courage, do it ....if you don't-find a new g/f
~if you think you can -just TRY 2 work it out w/ your g/f- if not your mom will find out some day either way!
2006-06-17 09:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by maci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good u should live ur life for u what ever makes u happy go with it don't live for others it just makes u depressed and makes u wish u could go back and do it all again ur way not the way they want u to live
2006-06-17 14:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by white_wizard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you comes from the Bard;
"above all else, to thine own self be true".
This is YOUR life, not your mothers. Either she deals with who you are or she runs. If she deals, wonderful. If she runs then it is HER problem, not yours.
Enjoy your life, it's too short to worry about other people's feelings about you.
Courage.
2006-06-17 09:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c'mon you can do that, dont be nervous take a deep breath and relax so you'll know what to do ;)
2006-06-17 10:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by ..... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my days!
well done for having the courage to do so, i know its been a big problem for you!
2006-06-17 08:54:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u dont live home so it is really none of her biz...do what makes you happy
2006-06-17 09:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by luvmadukes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself f*** everyone esle
2006-06-17 10:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by young one1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋