We Love Each other a Lot , I don't intend to Cheat on her.
Its Just that she is loosing interest with passing years.
Well what does one do anything abt it
2006-06-17 00:35:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to a good counselor .
Develop a solid relationship with God.
2006-06-17 00:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, man, I feel you ... I do know what you're talking about, and it is a rough go. I'm pretty sure you talk about it, and after you talk, it seems to work for a bit, but then, back it goes to the way it was.
The reality is that some people just aren't into sex, or they lose interest in it, and that can be for a variety of reasons.
I think that she knows it's important to you ... I would imagine you have told her this on more than one occassion. So why doesn't she do it more? The answer is in her, and she simply may not want to do it. For people who enjoy sex, and love the feeling, this is most difficult to understand. but it is very true.
If you have a happy loving marriage, that is great! And I'm sure that you are more than content with that. Perhaps in time, things will change, but I wouldn't be too hopeful. I would just continue to Love her, and romance her, but not look for anything in return for it, especially sex. I would not pressure her for it in any way. If you are very happy, that is excellent.
Be sincere and true with your Love to her ... that is what matters most.
2006-06-17 01:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Earl G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are getting complacent. Do things to spice up your life. Go out to a dress up - nice restaurant, romance her
Go to a vacation spot ...like Hawaii or the Caribbean
Take her somewhere you know she always wanted to go
Plays, the opera, museums
All the things you did to court her before you married should not have stopped after marriage.
Be the man she fell in love with, have fun and the romance will come back automatically
Remember , all the money you are saving for a rainy day will not do a bit of good if you both drift apart or when you are too old to enjoy yourself anyway or you are dead...
2006-06-17 00:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just heard on the Today Show this morning that long lingering hugs release an endorphin that woman need to make them happy, but men need the release of sex to release the same endorphin.... so maybe if you do more of the long and lingering hugs...without expecting anything in return her endorphin releases will lead to more You know what for you! I Know the hugs make me feel more loved and secure in my relationship... I have a man that tells me he loves me and hugs me every day.
2006-06-17 00:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by clrguard1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try off the wall things that you have never tried before to spice up the sex in the marriage. Sometimes doing that helps instead of the same thing everytime. Your married. Don't be afraid to try things that you thought you never would.
2006-06-17 01:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try something different that you havn't tried with her yet. Like do it in the outdoors in the rain, different positions, food, etc. Just try something original that you think she'll be comfortable or like doing that's totally off the wall. Don't tell her about it first just surprise her with it. You'll be amazed by the results. Good luck
2006-06-17 00:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by guitardan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be spontaneous loving creative ROMANTIC if you know her do things to bring it all back try without pointing it out work out together or walk together go to the beach at night suprise her with small trips getways to do what she likes only engage in sex if shes up for it get her there, up for it that is appreciate her tell her your soo glad you found each other and you were just thinking how lucky you are to have her in your life know her again BE ROMANTIC and don't let her SEE THIS ADVICE EVER GOOD LUCK LET ME KNOW PLEASE now i'm interested i have the exact same problem we all do eventually babygavine@yahoo.com good luck let me know
2006-06-17 00:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by babygavine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray
2006-06-17 01:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by jhornneon23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION. AFTER THAT YOU HAVE 2 CHOICES. LOOK ELSEWHERE,WHICH IS NOT THE COMMITMENT YOU AGREED TO, OR FOCUS ON THE THINGS THAT ARE MORE IMPORTANT IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE MARRAIGE.
2006-06-17 01:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by shookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thtz ur bad luck...try talking to her
2006-06-17 01:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Srk adc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋