One of the boyfriend of my bestfriend courted me. when my bestfriend knew all about this, she got mad and told everything to my other friends. My other frinds believed her that I took her Boyfrind away from her. iT SO HAPPENED THAT I also have a crush on my other bestfriend's crush. now they are all amd at me. Is it really my fault if a guy falls in love with me?
2006-06-17 00:21:12 · 10 answers · asked by mahgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes, it is your fault for being too sexy for your friends
2006-06-17 00:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
it's really important to remember something: HANDS OFF THE MERCHANDISE. this means don't flirt, and don't encourage flirting with your friends' guys.
having said that, you do need to apologize. not because you necessarily did anything wrong, but because you feel bad that you've wounded your friends. If you don't truly feel bad, you may want to re-evaluate your friendships. but if you do, you want to show them that they come first and that you care about your relationship. Really, these guys are just passing through and are not a permanent part of your core relationships. You know this, and so if you are going to "wrong" anyone, it should be these peripheral people. no friend is worth losing over a guy: trust me on this. when the guy goes, it gets pretty lonely.
In the future, be honest with your friends. Turn down their cheating boyfriends when they make a pass, but tell your friend what they did. that's what friends do: they have each other's back.
2006-06-17 07:34:38 · answer #2 · answered by mystique_365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not your fault if they fall for you but im sure your actions toward these guys have lots to do with how they act to you. unless you want to end up a lonely old maid, stick true to your friends and leave these guys alone.
2006-06-17 07:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault if a guy falls inlove with you...
unless you gave him a hint that you like him...
but if you don't do that then it's not your fault, believe me.
maybe your friends aren't really your friends...
and if your friend's current boyfriend is courting you and you are entertaining him then you are to blame too.
just think about it...
2006-06-17 07:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No fault of yours. It is the fault of your friends, who have not been able to get hold of their boyfriends any more.
2006-06-17 07:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must remeber if a man has dated or is seeing a friend or family member hands off. there are more fish in the sea. but you will always have your freind and family
2006-06-17 07:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stay away from friends b/f's so, i wouldn't really know what to tell you. Friends b/f's are off limits in my opinion.
2006-06-17 08:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by BabyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can i help u! u can Mill me at love_me077@yahoo.com
2006-06-17 07:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by loveme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask urself... is there sumthin wrong me?
2006-06-17 07:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweetslashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, they have issues.
2006-06-17 07:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋