i went 2 a guys house yesterday and i thought he really liked me i jus wanted 2 chill and get 2 no him but he obviously had otha plans he was forceful and had sex without my consent he only stopped when i started crying i fear now that it was unprotected what do i do?
2006-06-17 00:11:57 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Dont wash, call cops and they will see you get the moring after pills...
You have been raped and any clothing on your or body fluids can be evidence to get the evil little **** ...
DO IT NOW!!! no showers keep the clothes on
call the cops tell them whats happend before he attacks someone else or comes around for you...
Then tell parents...
When all that has been done can you come back and tell us what happened as we are very worried about you.
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FORGOT
You need a hug... hug...
and you have done nothing wrong... he has
you are not bad, dirty, immoral, spoilt, a ****, tramp, fornicator, or other rubbish... hit anyone who says that.
You have been attacked in a particularly nasty way.
Though surprised he stopped when you cried indicting maybe confusion or second thoughts... but still out of order.
You did not deserve anything.
OK... and if you have not called the cops and got the morning after pill do it now.
Remember no washing no mattr how bad you feel
2006-06-17 00:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Joey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could get pregnant!!
You must be feeling really low right now. But you need to be strong and try and think logically about what to do. My advice would be to go straight to the doctor and explain the situation. If you cant get a doctors appointment tell the receptionist the reasons over the phone. Failing all those go to your pharmacist.Or any hospital in the UK will see you at the A and E department if you cant get an appointment.
It as also really important that you go to your local police staion. What this man has done to you is against the law. There is no other way to look at it. even if you know him or thought he was a nice guy. if you did not give this man consent to have sex with you. He has raped you. This sounds strong,but thats the bottom line. You are not alone and there are so many people who can help you. please go to the doctors and ask there advice. i know it will be hard but you should think about confiding in a close family member who can help at times like this. This may be the hardest step.
I dont know what country you live in but there will always be help groups to go to or call if you cant do it face to face. search the internet.Please!
You will be ok.x
2006-06-17 11:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, go to the Police station and report the rape.... while they are examining you they will also carry out a pregnancy test... you cannot allow this person to get away with this, how many girls has he done this to before and how many will he continue to do this to until he's been stopped.
You could also go to the pharmacy and get yourself the morning after pill, you can take this up to 72 hours after having unprotected sex, but personally I would be also worried about sexually transmitted infections.
Tell the police and ask a friend to go with you.
2006-06-17 08:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom or dad what happened - I guess you are young 'cos you are asking this question. They will give you the support you need at this time.
Next stop is the police. He raped you.
Then you need to get an HIV test and a pregnancy test.
Whatever the outcome of the tests, you need to talk to someone so ring the rape crisis centre.
2006-06-17 10:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's aw full!!! You really need to report this to the police. What this guy done was wrong. No one has the right to force themselves on you. The police will be able to arrange for you to see a doctor also.
2006-06-17 07:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Allison but in a different order. Go to the hospital (hopefully you have not showered), tell them what happened and they will discreetly bring in the police and give you the morning after pill.
2006-06-17 08:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by lovesamystery32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police girl! don't have a shower, don't wash your clothes and put the asshole away before he does it to someone else!
They will do tests for you at the station and check you over, also go to your doctor and get the morning after pill
Hope everything works out for you darling xx
2006-06-17 07:22:05 · answer #7 · answered by angel louie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police. Then get yourself checked over at the doctors asap.
2006-06-19 09:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by Ju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plz u go to docter n ask her to checkup 4 pregnant n if it is conformed take a advice of doctors about it and choose the good advise n do it. don't worry, calm down n do not fear
2006-06-17 08:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by kashi pathi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a rape crisis centre and they will do a pregnancy test for you as well as contact the police.
2006-06-17 07:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by kinta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋