2006-06-16 23:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Manny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know I'm young but im not stupid. I have never flet this way about anyone. when im around her I get butterflies. It's been like this for some time now. I dont wanna have sex with her or anything,I just want to be with her.
2006-06-16 23:54:26 · update #1
Hey Manny,
You're not bisexual because you like someone...
I suggest that you need to know what your purpose on earth is. It might sound like it has nothing to do with your feelings for your friend, but believe me it does.
At 14, you have an opportunity to set yourself apart from everyone else. Without a doubt, its easier said than done..but that's just it...its only easier..not impossible.
If you haven't already, read Rick Warren's book - The Purpose Driven Life. Feeling lost has more to do with whether you know who you are and what you're here for..not so much who you like, and why you like them.
You have a purpose - this is the time to discover it!
2006-06-17 00:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Yeta 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No. You are 14 and at an age when everything is confusing and on top of it, your hormones are running amok. Take all relationships slowly and do not try to rush any of them. I believe the best present that you can give yourself at your age is time. You are almost an adult but you still have the luxury to act like a teenager so why rush things? Be friends with both boys and girls and try to avoid physical relationships for a while until your body has adjusted to the hormonal "crazies" that it may be going through at this time. Have fun with your friends and know that sexual relationships will have plenty of time to grow the rest of your life but now is the time to learn how to manage relationships without the sexual aspect interfering. I know this is a hard thing to do especially when sometimes at 14 your body wants you to follow through on every sexual urge that flows through it! At 14 these urges can be very strong and I am not making light of them but keep in mind that you deserve this gift of time and waiting even a few years to explore your sexuality will reap huge rewards in the future.
2006-06-16 23:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Paula P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes already going through rough times with the other guy, so u surprising her with ur feelings may not be so great. be a really good friend for now, as she is breaking up with the guy. just be there for her like a best friend. And after everything is good, find the right time to tell her, "im not over u yet.."
2016-05-19 22:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently, y0ur n0w c0nfused!.... try t0 think and reflect....it can help y0u decide if y0u really l0ve y0ur friend as a friend 0r y0u have h0ts f0r her!.....but in any case the fact that y0u are able t0 feel that way t0 s0me0ne 0f same sex it's apparently being a bisexual ....d0nt w0rry ab0ut it t0o much th0ugh y0ure n0t al0ne ..
2006-06-16 23:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by stealthhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it does not mean any thing either way other than your starting to notice how you feel . Be patient and kind to your self , the truth will work it self out
2006-06-16 23:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still figuring out who you are. Don't start labeling yourself yet. Keep your feelings to yourself because you don't want to freak out your friend. Love her silently and don't lose her as a friend.
2006-06-16 23:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14 years old ? you are very young for sex .why americans cannot wait to marriade and do sex next of sex ?is it legalli in jesus religion ?
2006-06-16 23:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mohammad Sadegh Bagheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noway man.I love my bestfriend.but she had a bf.so even do I.dun worry.except you would lyk to hav sex wit her....not kool at all
2006-06-16 23:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a phase u r going through, it will go away
2006-06-16 23:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!untill and unless u feel like having sex with her!
2006-06-16 23:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋