As you all know my ex boyfriend left me about now 3 weeks and he never gave me an explanation to why he's leaving, yes maybe he found someone else is what you're all gonna say, but we were together for 5 years, For the first two weeks I kept calling and text messaging him, he kept telling me that he will talk to me when he's ready for me not to call... It's so hard cause I'm so much in love with him I'm soon to be 35 years old and I can't believe I've wasted all those years. But my question is I recently changed my cell number 2 days ago, so I don't know if he has tried to call or text me, see I held my self back it's now four days I haven't called him or text him for that matter, but is it possible that he actually forgot about me that easily or is there any chance that if I hold myself back in NOT calling him chances are he'll call me, I know it's a stupid question but i'm just curious in getting any advice from people who've been in the same situation DID THE GUY EVER CALL BACK
2006-06-16 22:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't call him! and it is a good think that you changed your phone number.
After 5 years together he just takes off with no explanation?! I know it's very difficult for you and it's going to take sometime for you to get over it, but he is a jerk! If I were you, i won't talk to him even if he comes by and drops on his knees!!
2006-06-16 22:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, he must have seen something in the way the relationship was going, and thru bad advice from an outside source, decided to leave you high and dry. It hurts, I know, but do you really want someone that doesnt want you. You gave him 5 years, take that and apply it to your next (if any) relationship. Its tough, I just got out of a 1.5 year relationship and we have been broken for a bout 4 months. I nursed the idea of getting back with her because of the time, and she has such a cute son. But my friends, made me think about this. She left me for someone else, and they changed there mind. Do I want someone that may just leave again? I think not, it took a lot of heart to finally break it off. I did it in a very mean fasion to get my point across, it hurt but I made it. you too should bite the bullet and just say Eff it, he left you, obviously he had issues. Welcome to the single world, lonely but at least it will always be there.
2006-06-16 22:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by RuneMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with dimabader in this one. He has NO backbone. How can a guy just split like that, without an explanation? Like you said, no explanation, no nothing, I am so sorry, it must have been so painful to you.
Good thing you changed your number. move on girl, you deserve for someone to treat you better, for a man that can say what he means & mean what he says. If he's your same age, it's so immature for someone to just slip like that, with no explanation, like the whole time you gave him meant nothing to him. If he could at least be man enough to write a letter, he deserves NO second thought.
Get yourself healed up, learn new things, get new hobbies, just keep yourself busy. Later on, when you're ready to move on and be happy with someone else, be sure to not blame yourself or the next guy for what this idiot did. There are a lot of GOOD guys out there, just find one that is honest and mature, not afraid to say what's on his mind.
2006-06-16 22:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by grldragon101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will find all ways and means to contact you even if he has to go to the end the world to find you. He is JUST not interested in you anymore. YOu can try giving him the new number, but I doubt he will call.
2006-06-16 22:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, yet you're loopy. This ex of yours STABBED you. He presented you actual damage and also you're nonetheless in a relationship with him? Your new bf appears like he's conscious what he's speaking about.
2016-11-14 21:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he got some problems and unable to tell u ....maybe he need time to sort things out before tellin u..maybe he felt if he tell u wat probs he have u will be hurt..maybe tht is the reason he left...u knw there can be a lot of reasons y he left u and didnt give u an explaination.......u have changed ur no....let him knw ur new no. so tht he will be able to contact u wen he wants to....u can always hope for sme miracle to happen....it not wrong to hope for the best......gud luck to u....
2006-06-16 23:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
way too long of a question made it halfway and said who cares. 2 pts
2006-06-16 22:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cory Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋