He keeps calling me after our breakup and threatens me to go back to him or he will make me pay. I am really scared. Plz tell me, how to make him stop all this. I have moved on with my life.
2006-06-16 22:08:53 · 12 answers · asked by cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call Domestic Violence Hot-line 1-800-799-SAFE (7233),
ask them what they suggest you do and get a protection order, I have also included a safety plan.
He is an abuser remember batterers will kill, if you don't think so ask all of the women that were murdered by their obsessive ex boyfriends.
2006-06-16 22:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by joquetta16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first, go to your local police station to make a report, then every time he calls you, write it down. I suggest a calander. Be specific, with dates, times, and what the converstation was about. If he continues to do this, and shows up at your house, call the police and be sure to let them know that you have already filed a police report with them, and would like something done about this abuse. If they do not do anything about it ( some are just jerks), go to the chief of police, then if still nothing, go to the sheriff's office. Try to do all of this in the same day, that way, they can't find any excuse to try to dismiss this. Good luck!!!
2006-06-17 05:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need more details on your relationship to answer more accurately, but everyone is right- This problem will not just go away. A threat is a criminal violation. Get some legal advice from the District Attorney's office. Have some friends clue him in on how much he's scaring you. Move if you have to. You only have one life.
2006-06-17 05:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Steven H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"or he will make me pay"? that's the definition of a bad relationship right there. Threatening other people for respect doesn't work.have you told him you've moved on?perhaps you should get help from some peers or an adult (i dont know how old you are so if you're a teenager or somthing you could do that) and if it gets out of hands you could even report it to the authorities.
2006-06-17 05:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents..Don't answer his calls, Threaten him with a restraining order, call his parents. There are many differnt things you can do but if you fear for your life then I would go to the police.
2006-06-17 05:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a police report now.
2006-06-17 05:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don bother about him , and try not to care. Any physical threat , report to police. like u have put it: EX . terminate him . u show and he will be back for more
2006-06-17 05:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by lee dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can block his number from your phone, call the cops, get a restraining order,tell your family
2006-06-17 05:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by trouble0410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police... Get some mace, a baseball bat, or a gun....
2006-06-17 05:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dis you see the movie vanilla sky? uhmmm.. just be careful, talk to him , if he doesn't listen you savior is a restriction order.. yeahh i knoe it is just a piece of paper....
2006-06-17 05:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Fatima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋