if u suspect and 9o% sure your husband had or still having affair but he denies it totally what should be the?

Question

i have found in his cell phone bill so many restricted number most they have happend the same time of day and the same days of week

Answer 1

There's no need to hire a Private Dick, because you're 90% sure that your Dick is cheating. No need to throw him out of the house, he will beg to come back, what has that gained? (nothing). If you feel it in your gut, and he has done it before, let him go, it will hurt but let it go! The woman that he's seeing has no self respect for herself, let alone you. And do not say that stupid slogan that a lot of people use, (He comes home to me), Of course after his balls can't float they're empty, sure he's coming home to you. If you keep taking his word, then he knows I can tell her anything and she'll believe me. Be strong let that disease go!

Answer 2

Before you jump to conclusions (oops, too late) I just want to tell you that when I moved out of state, I got a new local phone number. I have several companies who are trying to collect funds from whomever (actually, I know the name, because they always leave a message for this person) had the phone number before me. They keep calling and calling and calling! They won't quit. They do whatever it is that hides their number, so I don't know that it's them calling. They call every day at the same time, but then also sometimes early in the morning or late at night. I just wonder if it's possible that this is what's happening to your husband.

Answer 3

Your gut feeling is usually the right answer. This is exactley what I'm talking about. Once someone has cheated, the relationship is never the same. You will never have the same relationship. It's one of those things that if you have forgave him for the first time then you need to let things go. You cant keep looking for him to do it again or everything that he does is going to be an issue. Sounds to me you didnt forgive him the first time. I think that you should either stop looking and love what you got or let him go. Chances are it is going to happen again but you should have let him know that if he ever put his self in situation that he is cheating again then it is over. Shame on him the first time. Shame on you the second time. You only fight for your relationship one time. If you have to fight the second time for it, then you have taught him to do whatever he wants. And when he does it your going to forgive and keep him. The reality is the trust is gone and it will probably never fully be there again.

Answer 4

If your wrong this accusing will have down falls , if your right have you asked does it matter ? Really , many women will have anger , then pain , then forgiveness ,so if you trap a rat , you have to have a plan ,An answer ! Or just play stupid and hope he doesn't fall in love enough to leave .It isn't really hard to catch a cheater . It's a question do you want to know .For if he knows you know and forgave , you won't ever keep him from doing it again .Now cheating has it's reasons .Sometimes it's the thrilling of no one knowing , or her husband might not like your husband .If you really want to know how to catch him , I can tell you , just email me .Just keep in mind , you need to decide if he is then what ?

Answer 5

Well - 90% isnt always good enough.... Restricted numbers happen for many reasons...

Look for changes in the way he behaves with you - more/less attentive, etc...

get a phone locator service setup on his phone or get a gps tracker - works a treat!!!! Been there - But! - dont let 90% spoil you marrage - get "Proof"

One other thing - Men have affairs for different reason from women - usually its just sex - Women usually do it for love.. So if he is having one, it doesnt mean he doesnt love you... Butttt - dont take any crap either!!!

Answer 6

He's a cheater! My ex whom cheated thru our marriage use to save the bitchs' phone # on his cell but put a guys name. One time my 12 yr old son read an incoming text message from a Tony saying something like "That was a good choice of movie last night. And I enjoy making love with you. I Love you." My son still at 14 can't get that out of his head. Cheaters should be put to death.

Answer 7

I remember seeing an interview once with a lady who was married to a famous conductor. He travelled the world and was very high profile. He also had a well established reputation as a womaniser with several affairs under his belt. He was obviously also a charming and personable man.
The interviewer asked his wife how she had coped with this.
She answered, with a gentle smile, "It was always me he came home to."
I was struck both by her dignity and her obvious love for this man and also by his obvious love for her. She managed to express so much more strength than if she had screamed and ranted. She had also spent many happy years married to a man she loved despite his shortcomings, and who had loved her.
Always think what will I be losing when trying to force a confrontation because you very likely won't be gaining anything if your partner is worth holding on to.

Answer 8

If you are suspecting him with proves, i think you should confront him with your suspicions. Do not do it in anger , approach him with love and make him realise by having affairs, he is hurting you. Tell him he has to choose between his marriage and his affair. i bet you, if he still cares for you he will stop all act of infidelity. You need to learn to communicate with your husband, communication is very important in any relationship. that is the only way you can sort things out.
when i want to address an issue with my husband, i usually do it in the night, by then the kids will be asleep. i will wake him up and talk to him with emotions. at times when i am really down in spirit i cry.Don't ever anger him more by shouting at him address issues with love, show him you care and still love him. i bet you he will change and always pray to God concerning everything, your marriage as well.
good luck hope this helps

Answer 9

wen a man decides to roam, just give up! u think he will change for the better and come back to u? 365 days a year, every second of his mind wandering around. Once he step in to it Theres no turning back . But can KIV la cos wife find out . Leave him la. I am a man and i don believe in making that first stupid move cos once feel good, it always remains. i am married for 9 years and temptation i do have , but cannot do it cos i do not wan to hurt my wife

Answer 10

That's a very high percentage so if you are 90% sure then you no longer suspect. Is he around you (home) at those times of day and those days of the week? Follow your intuitions.