2006-06-16 21:28:44 · 23 answers · asked by bhe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it all depends on the reason ur not giving it to him
2006-06-16 21:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really common question. Having sex is a big decision, and there are many things to think about, including
Your personal values and goals
Your feelings about the kinds of emotional and physical risks you are willing to take
Whether you are feeling pressured
How clear you can be with your partner about what you do and don't want to happen
What you want out of your relationship
Having sex can be a great experience, but it can also make people feel vulnerable, and they can get hurt. It's important to think about the emotional risks and benefits when making a decision. It's also important to plan how you will protect yourself and your partner from unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections if you choose to have sex.
It's important not to be pushed into doing something that you're not ready for. It must be your choice to have sex and you have every right to wait until you feel that the time is right
Love is caring about another person. If he loves you, he will respect your decision.
I'M ASSUMING YOUR YOUNG, 19 OR UNDER, I APOLOGIZE IF I'M WRONG. IF YOU SAY NO IT MEANS EXACTLY THAT. DONT FEEL PRESSURIZED.
IF YOUR READY AND HE HAS NOT FORCED YOU I REPEAT NOT FORCED YOU, THEN MAKE SURE YOUR OF AGE, RELAX AND ENJOY THE MOMENT
GOOD LUCK X
2006-06-17 04:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by COOL LOVING VIRGO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to do it then do so and if not then don't but there are ground rules - ALWAYS PROTECTED!!! Kids aren't as much fun as you think! Also, no committment - no sex! Sex comes with a heavy emotional price tag - its not just having fun for us girls but it is for guys. After sex your going to think he's the bomb and ya'll are "soul mates" and so "together" and you have to know where he is all the time and you'll long for his call. HE will long for your stuff (not good). So having sex is taking a risk in all senses. If you want to then do it - some people chose to jump out of planes, they are risk takers.
2006-06-17 04:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by tiffanylsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never let anyone pressure you into doing something that you are not ready for, especially if you've never had sex before. your virginity is the most precious thing you have and you need to be very particular about who you give it to. don't make your decision based on the answers you receive on here, just listen to what's in your heart and you'll know when the time is right. good luck, kid !!
2006-06-17 04:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by shakethecookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lesson to your heart and your body. If you want to wait you tell him NO and he has to respect that. You sound as if you're surprised at him for wanting sex, didn't you know that's what all boys and men want SEX. It's like a candy store for men they want to try every flavor. Don't just be a flavor be you. What you want is all that matters. GOD bless.
2006-06-17 04:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl if your not ready dont do it for him. Just be honest with him, if he doesn't respect that then hes not worth having. Giving your virginity is sacred. Dont let anyone teach you different. You will remember your first forever and your gonna want that to be a good memory. Respect yourself enough to know what you want.
2006-06-17 04:33:57 · answer #6 · answered by spitly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy. If a girl just decide to give me sex...I won't think to highly about her.
My advice, don't give in to him.
Ask yourself what your values are and check if your values are shown when you have sex with him....
Good luck and God bless
2006-06-17 04:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Freddie de Lange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt cuz im 19 and ive fuked 10 guys and now im kinda regreting it but then i dont. my friend is being pressured to having sex and she just turned 18 in jan and i had sex when i was 16. im so proud of her.
2006-06-17 05:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you dont want to have sex then tell him straight up but if he still tries to make you have sex with him then dump him
2006-06-17 04:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to have sex then you should tell him no. And don't let him make you feel guilty for not doing it...it's your body and you have every right to say no.
2006-06-17 04:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by xtcgurl123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him... try to have sex at the rigth time with the right person. you cannot be sure that your relationship will last forever.. you'll just cry if you'll give in then you'll discover that he just want to have sex coz of the lust.
2006-06-17 05:29:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋