it's been almost a year now and i have dated other guys since then but it never works cause their not him, everything reminds me of him. please help hes driving me out of my mind.
2006-06-16 20:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by adam lazzara is so sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hun i dont think you will beable to get over him.... let me tell you something.... i was datin this guy for only 3 months and i fall in love wit him and then we broke up i was so sad and depressed all the time and never thought we would get back together.... well i tried to date someone else just one person though and you know wat that didnt last but 3 days like you said it wasnt him..... i couldnt do it so i went crawlin back to my ex and we got back together... and just tonite i said wat was you doin waitin for me to come back crawlin to you and he said yea.... so i dont know wat you really could do but i think you should talk to that other guy.... try and get him back and work things out.... eirther that or not be you anymore..... i think since you still care for him you aint gone be able to get over him and these guys your datin isnt fair to them cuz their just like your rebound guy...... so sit down think bout wat it is you want and stop datin other guys untill you know you arent datin them just b/c your lonely or watever.... sit down and talk to the other guy your ex and see wat he says..... he mite want you back and is just scared he mite be rejected..... but i'm not sure if thats wat it is b/c i dont know your sitution.... e-mail me and give me more details on why ya'll broke up and things like that......
2006-06-16 21:06:34 · answer #1 · answered by hesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a new hobby, stop seeing him, stop compering him, get rid of things you had together, get rid of the perfume he gave you or the one you wore with him, spend more time on yahoo questions and answers lol
see below answers of some people for you:
What do you do when you can't stop obsessively thinking about your ex-boyfriend but you do not want to date right after the break up?
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KEEP YOURSELF BUSY.....GO OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS AND HAVE A GOOD TIME. EVEN THOUGH YOU DONT WANT TO START DATING THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH HARLESS FLIRTING. AVOID PLACES THAT YOU & YOUR EX WOULD GO TOGETHER. DO NOT TALK ABOUT HIM. DO A GIRLS WEEKEND. TURN THE CELL PHONE OFF AND DO NOT CALL HIM. HAVE FUN.
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DO NOT CALL HIM!!! THAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING!!!!! Go and do yur thing with friends. It is so important to have your support group there for you. True friends will not care how much you go on and on about him but they will want to get your mind off him. When you are alone that is when it's hard. Excercise.... get out and take a walk or run. Sounds so stupid but I guarantee you that if you do this when you get home you will be so tired and in a better mood it will put you right to sleep and you will have made it through another day.
Each day gets easier. You will be fine and you will wake up another day even if you did not talk to him.. remember that. :)
2006-06-16 20:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Desert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to do something that can get your mind thinking about something else and not him. The 1st love is always the hardest to forget and that's a fact. Either way, if you want to forget him, you have many ways to do so. Get a hobby, play some music which doesn't have love as a topic. Always make yourself busy so that you can concentrate on something else other than him. It can help.
2006-06-16 21:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by IdOlIsTiC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, he's for sure significant to you to get you into this state. yet when he would not like you, for a truth, then you absolutely can not stress some thing to ensue. He would not deserve you! believe me, i have been by this. you want to settle for that he would not like you. this does no longer make him evil, and it also would not make you gruesome or terrible, there is someone obtainable for actually everyone and its regrettably no longer him. next, i counsel looking a sparkling area of obsess over. A television coach, a warm celeb, a movie, a e book or maybe yet another reliable searching guy at your college. ultimately that butterfly feeling will bypass. do not get down and depressed, and continuously undergo in thoughts that thoughts replace, yours can replace about him, yet his ought to replace about you! Chin up, and dangle in there! Your captivating! x
2016-10-14 06:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to admit that it is over and you move on with your life.he is not the only man in the whole world there are very good men out there.You have to accept first that it is over then you can move on.You are just hurting yourself.I guess you are a good girl the dude doesn't deserve you anyway
2006-06-16 21:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by dank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why it didn't work between you & the guys you dated was you keep on finding the traits of your ex bf which you cant find on them. that's quite unfair.....it's very obvious that you haven't let go of him. first, you should make yourself busy.pamper yourself.enjoy the company of your friends & family.second, have time to know what you really want.find ways to achieve them.third, make sure that your not wasting time & effort in achieving your wants.dont waste your time thinking of him knowing that you will not end up with him.you deserve to be happy.make sure that you are spending your time wisely as well as it will also make you grow as a person.
2006-06-16 22:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is realize it is over for you two and move on...you sabbotage your relationships by comparing men..girl men are so different find the good in the guy you like and quit comparing these guys. look fior good in others and let go of this other guy and enjoy new traits that you might find attractive. remember , when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change. move on,let him go.
2006-06-16 21:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. Get up in the morning, and do your thing during the day. Then go to sleep at night, knowing that tomorrow's another day.
2006-06-16 21:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by bleu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me and your worries will be taken care of
2006-06-16 21:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Jason M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try getting back with him
or you can just pray and ask God to help you get over him
2006-06-16 21:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋